I totally agree with UB, 90% of people in high school who claim to of been in love really haven't been. A short 3 or 4 month relationship in which you were "in love" doesn't necessarily constitute that you were in love.
Loving someone and being in love are two totally different worlds. I love a lot of people, I love my friends, my family, and those whom mean most to me. You can love a lot of people but that doesn't necessarily mean that your in love and until somebody realizes this they'll never respect the word. I think the word love is thrown around way to damn much. Moreso with girls whom seem to want to say "I love you" to there boyfriend within the first week there together. To say it as they do is an immature gesture that they just want to live out some fairytale relationship that doesn't exist but in movies.
I have been in love, I know this just because I do, I don't really have to describe why or "defend" the fact that I was/am in love, because I know that I am. My guess is that Orgazmo and Sim can both say that they're in love and they don't really need to explain why because they just are.
The people that want to define the word are the ones who are searching for it because I'll reiterate, it's to many feelings and emotions to put into words.
[ August 08, 2003, 10:52 AM: Message edited by: BigDongedHoe ]
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