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tonguegina · 12-08-2003, 04:04 AM

tongue-

What the fuck man? You disappoint me at every turn. I can't help but ask what the hell you are thinking about sometimes. Honestly.

All you do is complain about your lack of a girlfriend, but what do you do about it? Nothing. "Time spent wishing is time wasted." You don't try to find girls, and when you do somehow manage to catch a girl's attention, you don't do anything about it. You really need to step up your self-confidence man, because I'm tired of it. And it's not just me. Everyone else is tired of seeing you fail at this day after day. And this whole 'fear of rejection' thing...yeah, that needs to stop. So you've been rejected 3 times by 2 girls. You can't make an omelet without breaking some eggs. I mean, you're fairly good friends with both of these girls now, right? Jesus, you could easily get a girl if you wanted. Let's think about some of the things your prom date told you...let's also remember that this is a girl that was on the Nubblies "Hottest Girl at WCHS" poll...

You're:
-attractive
-funny
-you make people happy
-she began to list off girls that were jealous that you didn't ask them to prom

How can you ignore that day after day? If this is so, then you should be automatic with any girl you come in contact with. Just remember that song All in My Head, grab your balls on the way out, and do it for Christ's sake, because frankly, I don't know that I can listen to you complain much longer.

And this girl back home you keep thinking about...move on, while keeping her interested. Date other girls, but keep talking to her. You're building something, but what? Who knows? Just let it ferment and concentrate on other things. I mean, there's obviously something there if you can continuously do dumbass things, but she keeps pulling you back in. Why does she do that? Is it your way with words, your closeness to her family, or maybe she feels something for you, too. I don't know how many times you can drop the ball and fuck up with that situation, but the fact that she is genuinely happy to see you each and every time is something. Stick with it. "If you can't get someone off your mind, maybe it's because they were supposed to be there." Only God knows where it's going.

Speaking of God, whatever happened there? Remember when you were a huge church-goer? When was the last time you even went to a service? April? May...maybe? You've lost touch with God, and it's obvious to you. Change it somehow.

Don't be so pessimistic. Sure you've had it rough, but so have so many others. Raise above it.

Read more. Textbooks especially. You could be at the head of most of your classes if you took them seriously. As far as other books go, just read them.

You don't have to be funny. It's not the only reason people like you.

Stop fucking around and decide what you want to do with your life. Weather it's a degree in business or whatever, just get in there and get your life on track.

Spend more time with your friends. Whenever you go home, you spend most of the time with your family. You are closer to your friends than most of your family. Every once in a while screw them and go hang out with your friends. They really shouldn't mind.

Take more chances. "Life is not to fear, life is to enjoy." You are always the happiest when you take a leap or go out on a ledge. Remember prom? Challenge yourself. If there's something you want to do, but are worried about or afraid of, do it. It'll work out for the best either way. I mean, don't forget to listen to your favorite quote, "It's better to regret something you did, than something you didn't do." You say it all the time, but do you ever listen to it yourself?

Basically it's all summed up in that last paragraph there. Take more chances. It's like in poker, you're too cautious. You're so much happier with your life when you actually do what you want and not just dream about it. Remember, "dreams are nothing more than wishes". Make your wishes come true. Only you can do that. People aren't going to hand you everything you want in life. You're the only person that doesn't believe in you. You really need to change that.

-gina

P.S. I know this was a riddled with quotes, man, but that's the way you are. You rarely like your own words for some reason, so you prefer to use others. Make your own quotes.

[ December 08, 2003, 01:23 AM: Message edited by: tonguegina ]

12-08-2003, 04:04 AM	#20 (permalink)
tonguegina I like dirt. Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 2,861 Internets: 2790	tongue- What the fuck man? You disappoint me at every turn. I can't help but ask what the hell you are thinking about sometimes. Honestly. All you do is complain about your lack of a girlfriend, but what do you do about it? Nothing. "Time spent wishing is time wasted." You don't try to find girls, and when you do somehow manage to catch a girl's attention, you don't do anything about it. You really need to step up your self-confidence man, because I'm tired of it. And it's not just me. Everyone else is tired of seeing you fail at this day after day. And this whole 'fear of rejection' thing...yeah, that needs to stop. So you've been rejected 3 times by 2 girls. You can't make an omelet without breaking some eggs. I mean, you're fairly good friends with both of these girls now, right? Jesus, you could easily get a girl if you wanted. Let's think about some of the things your prom date told you...let's also remember that this is a girl that was on the Nubblies "Hottest Girl at WCHS" poll... You're: -attractive -funny -you make people happy -she began to list off girls that were jealous that you didn't ask them to prom How can you ignore that day after day? If this is so, then you should be automatic with any girl you come in contact with. Just remember that song All in My Head, grab your balls on the way out, and do it for Christ's sake, because frankly, I don't know that I can listen to you complain much longer. And this girl back home you keep thinking about...move on, while keeping her interested. Date other girls, but keep talking to her. You're building something, but what? Who knows? Just let it ferment and concentrate on other things. I mean, there's obviously something there if you can continuously do dumbass things, but she keeps pulling you back in. Why does she do that? Is it your way with words, your closeness to her family, or maybe she feels something for you, too. I don't know how many times you can drop the ball and fuck up with that situation, but the fact that she is genuinely happy to see you each and every time is something. Stick with it. "If you can't get someone off your mind, maybe it's because they were supposed to be there." Only God knows where it's going. Speaking of God, whatever happened there? Remember when you were a huge church-goer? When was the last time you even went to a service? April? May...maybe? You've lost touch with God, and it's obvious to you. Change it somehow. Don't be so pessimistic. Sure you've had it rough, but so have so many others. Raise above it. Read more. Textbooks especially. You could be at the head of most of your classes if you took them seriously. As far as other books go, just read them. You don't have to be funny. It's not the only reason people like you. Stop fucking around and decide what you want to do with your life. Weather it's a degree in business or whatever, just get in there and get your life on track. Spend more time with your friends. Whenever you go home, you spend most of the time with your family. You are closer to your friends than most of your family. Every once in a while screw them and go hang out with your friends. They really shouldn't mind. Take more chances. "Life is not to fear, life is to enjoy." You are always the happiest when you take a leap or go out on a ledge. Remember prom? Challenge yourself. If there's something you want to do, but are worried about or afraid of, do it. It'll work out for the best either way. I mean, don't forget to listen to your favorite quote, "It's better to regret something you did, than something you didn't do." You say it all the time, but do you ever listen to it yourself? Basically it's all summed up in that last paragraph there. Take more chances. It's like in poker, you're too cautious. You're so much happier with your life when you actually do what you want and not just dream about it. Remember, "dreams are nothing more than wishes". Make your wishes come true. Only you can do that. People aren't going to hand you everything you want in life. You're the only person that doesn't believe in you. You really need to change that. -gina P.S. I know this was a riddled with quotes, man, but that's the way you are. You rarely like your own words for some reason, so you prefer to use others. Make your own quotes. [ December 08, 2003, 01:23 AM: Message edited by: tonguegina ]