No one said that bert. No one.
Anyway, I think that guys having to make the first move makes the game a little bit more interesting. The fact is, if you get rejected, give the girl 2 seconds to explain why, and if it's not good in your book, why waste your time?
Sad thing is, the girl will then think you're just out for the physical stuff. OF COURSE WE ARE! If we were out for the chatting, the laughing, and
just that, I'd be your fucking friend, and
just your friend!
Lay it out like this:
The reason why I chose to date you is because a) I think you're fucking hot, and I want to go farther with you than a friend would (and know that I don't mean sex....yet
), and b) I like you as a person, meaning, you don't annoy the shit out of me. I enjoy spending my time with you.
So if you get rejected, that means that there is more emphasis being put on the b side of the equation. Which means that you're losing at least
something in the relationship.
Maybe you have morals, and if that just means not kissing after the first date, then fine. But if it means not kissing for three months....then what the hell is there a need for a label? Give the label to someone else who will fit it more appropriately,
....you know what's sad? I just reasoned out why I can't call my girlfriend my girlfriend in logical terms. And I'm not sure if I really was on subject....
[ July 18, 2003, 09:24 PM: Message edited by: Combat Chuck ]