I don't need to "site" scientific evidence of wether or not it's a choice. I'll go from opinion and some examples in life that have been brought upon me.
A) If being gay was a "choice" as shroeder calls it then who in the name of fuck would want to do that. Who honestly in there right mind would choose a life of discrimination, hatred, and constant struggle for not being accepted. I know I sure as fuck would not and I'm not really sure who would.
B) I have a cousin that is homosexual, he dated girls in high school and plainly found himself unhappy and uncomfortable. His gay buddy was actually married before my cousin and he got together. He was married for 10 years and had a kid and could not figure out why he was so unhappy. He then found himself to be gay, now let me ask you do you think him being gay was a choice there? He all of a sudden thought "shit I'll be gay!" There is no fucking way that's the case, he was genetically wired to be gay and had a hard time dealing with that concept and a hard time finding it as well.
I think Professor brought up a good point. When you were 12 and 13 years old did you conciously make a choice to be straight? No you didn't, and I didn't either. We were just born that way to notice women. I knew females turned me on as soon as I was old enough to understand homosexuality.
It's not a choice Shroeder, for some that beg for attention and are psychologically ill it may be. The truth is you are either born gay or straight.
[ October 22, 2003, 08:46 PM: Message edited by: BigDongedHoe ]
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