Damn.
Don't know what I can tell you. I'm not gonna tell you what you want. Err... I don't mean that you have something specific in mind other than good advice, I just mean that until you decide what it is that you want, I'm not sure how much any good nubblite could help. I can say that I've never known a friend to fuck around with a hot girl and not have it come back to bite 'em in the balls. I'd steer away from that course.
Not sure which Mr. Blonde I'm talking to so I can't take anything in from your personality, but most guys don't give themselves enough credit. I think you could probably find a hot girl that wasn't going to play around with your head.
Honestly. I don't think the chick herself knows what she wants. That's part of the reason she has a friend she can flirt around with without having to feel threatened. On the other hand, she cries herself to sleep 'cause she had to sleep on the floor (exaggerating here). A dangerous thing this is. I recommended against just banging her and seeing how the friendship goes... but I'm not sure that this chick would be good for much more than that. Yet... I kinda wonder why she's the way she is in the first place...
I don't think this chick is dating material for you Man (capitalized 'cause I mean it for men in general since I have no idea who I'm talking to). I'm not saying the chick is unstable, just that until she knows what she wants, someone trying to get something from her (relationship or... the sex) is going to be in a perilous situation.
I think the absolute best thing you can do in this situation is decide what you want... AND NOT CHANGE YOUR MIND. Period (no ifs, ands, or buts). The more fippant you are, the more likely she's going to be less... sure what she wants. In my opinion, the girl needs something solid (not meaning your dick) in her life. Eventually, she might find some sort of balance. ...more often though, they just never learn. (actually, I don't know a single chick of that flavor who ever has).
It seems like you two get along smashingly. If you're any of the people I think you might be, you can do better (and even if not, the same is probably true).
[ September 27, 2004, 09:20 PM: Message edited by: Percipere'Chan ]
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