Blonde
I believe in the theory that all women know (consciously or subconsciously) if they will have sex with a guy within minutes of meeting him. You said that the first night you and 'Jessica' met, you hooked up. This leads me to believe that if you want to get them draws, you could.
You said that the two of you drink together, this is the perfect time to bring up the possibility of hooking up. Don't get all sappy about it, simply ask if she's ever thought about you two getting together... if you're perceptive in the least, you'll be able to pick up on what her response is regardless of what she says. The most common response I've encountered is... she'll smile, blush, look away for a second, then immediately look back making and holding eye contact for a little longer than what's comfortable... she's trying to feel you out, to see if you're serious about her or just want another notch on the bedpost... this is a very important few seconds, keep eye contact with her and don't laugh or give her the 'c'mon and get it' smile, as long as she doesn't say NO, you're in like Flynt. She may change the subject without giving you a straight answer, but that's alright, you already know her response.
All Guys
Now, I'm about to impart a little wisdom unto you, my good men... wisdom that could change your lives. Girls, women, chicks... they all have a filthy side. Some repress it and will never admit to it, but they all want the random hook-ups as much as guys do... granted, for the most part, they are more discerning in who they will have this hook-up with, but the drive is the same. Females, just like men, place guys into groups... they have three basic groups...
1. Guys they would date
2. Guys they would fuck
3. Guys they would be friends with
yes, I realize that 'guys they would date' are 'guys they would fuck', but for this purpose, I'm talking about guys they would fuck without dating.
It is possible to exist in more than one group, or to switch groups but, for the most part, you're stuck where they initially place you. The tricky part is finding out where you reside for each girl.
I have found a really easy way to influence where you stand with a girl you're just meeting. I simply say right off the bat "Hi, I'm Stab, I have a girlfriend" this throws them off because they are naturally suspicious and distrutful of new guys, they're used to guys trying hard to hit on them and keep their girlfriends a secret. This also completely takes away two of their groups... they can't logically think they're going to date you (although, it will make them want to date you more, simply because your honest and obviously think about your girlfriend when she's not around)... they also realize theat there is little to no hope of them becoming good friends with you because of the girlfriend. What does this leave?
The ladder theory as summed up by Chris Rock...
"I envy women... women get to have platonic friends... Men don't have platonic friends, we just have women we haven't fucked YET. As soon as I figure this out, I'm in there!
I guess I have some platonic friends, but they're all by accident... every platonic friend I've got started as some woman I was trying to fuck, I made a wrong turn somewhere and ended up in the friend zone."
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