Johnny, that was beautifully put. Nubblies has the potential to be a community of very kind people...as long as you make no mistakes. However, if you say one little thing that pisses off one little member, they will, depending on the person, jump all over you until you are verbally raped of any type of pride that you once had. That's just the way Nubblies is. You may not appreciate what they have to say, but that doesn't mean that you should A.) take it personally or B.) feel the need to run the other way (away from the boards). It's inevitable that you'll be insulted at some point in time...so it's really your choice as to how you are going to handle that. Personally, I find the "bash back" strategy to be the best, but I guess that trying to resolve the issue with the basher is also sufficient. What isn't sufficient, though, is running away. Face your fucking problems and conquer them, that's the only way to get shit accomplished in the world...Nubblies.com is no exception.
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