Pliedes, I think I have a pretty good suggestion for you. Next time you're down in the lab when she's there, walk up and tell her you like the flower in her hair but, that's not why you came up to talk to her. Tell her that you think she has a beautiful smile, then ask her what she's working on down there all the time. There might be an akward moment in there somewhere but, just smile when you stumble and keep going. When she tells you about the work she's doing ask her about her goals/dreams/ambitions etc. Bet you a hundred bucks her eyes will light right up. Everybody appreciates someone who is genuinely interested in them. Listen to her for a while, then just let your natural charm go and from there I'm sure you'll have no problem.
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