Forward? Naw, not if you're polite about it. From the get go she's going to have the suspicion that you're interested in her. But, that's okay. As long as you're friendly genuine the likelihood is that she'll enjoy some light conversation with her homework. And hell, if the girl smiles as much as Pliedes has mentioned she's probably a pretty gregarious chick anyway.
I do agree with your point A. It is hard to find a good girl these days. Especially with a lot of guys being the dicks that they are. But, the more you go up and ask the better feel you will get for what girls are on your wavelength and which ones aren't.
About point B. Even if she is kinda in a hurry to get her homework done so she can go hang out with her friends, I don't think anyone would be really weirded or offended by a quick compliment. If she does look like she's in a hurry that may be the best time to catch her. Just a quick charming little 'I just wanted to say that I really like your flower' (then flash your best winning smile). That way you've peaked her interest without disturbing her. You can always look her up again sometime when she's not so busy.
Eye contact. VERY good. Excellent point Combat Chuck. And you're right again, it is a fine line. Something that helps push that line in your favor tho is confidence. Show your confidence with your eye contact. ANd yeah, Smiles work wonders.
If things do progress, a good way to keep things going is definately through asking about her goals/dreams etc. You can always reach down in your bag of tricks for that if there's need of a new subject to make sure the conversation contiunes.
Whatever you choose to do Pliedes, best of luck to you. Let us know what happens.
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