That's fine that you want kids, and I agree with you 100% on the stipulations you've suggested. But why, do you personally want kids. If this is thought out right (unless you've already thought about it..a LOT) it shouldn't be an immediate answer. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I really don't think I want them, and I was just saying I did because thats what we're "supposed" to do.
I'm not saying I WON'T EVER, but right now I just don't see it ever happening. Obviously things change, but i'd rather say not ever now and just cross that bridge when and if it comes up.
|