I know people that are 'femmy' as you describe, and they are not gay. I also know who Jake is, he is not 'femmy' at all. He used to be very interested in females, but for some reason he became attracted to males. I dont know why but that is what he CHOSE. So no, no one is 'destined' as you say to be gay. Everything we do is based on decision, not devine intervention, or pre-destination, which is the theory: that some people are just meant to go to hell no matter what, but it is all the thoughts that pass in out mind, and the choice to indulge or not. Moreover; I think to an extent that thoughts one possesses can be controlled. The mind has all the power in the world.
So that is why I am asking 'Jake' to look at what he is now, and ask himself if he is happy, proud, for certain, and true. And most importantly, right.
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