dont start a fight you cant finish.
any way, my point was that the attitude that you dont have a right to be upset leads to self hatred. you begin to loathe yourself for feeling miserable, which just makes the situation work.
however you feel is real and needs to be deal with in a manner other than, "well, hes got it worse than i do," for if its not, it wil manifest itself in other ways.
life and feelings are more complex than just saying "he has it worse".
[ August 22, 2005, 04:53 PM: Message edited by: bloodyfart ]
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