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Originally posted by Percipere'Chan:
Tell her that you think she has a beautiful smile, then ask her what she's working on down there all the time. There might be an akward moment in there somewhere but, just smile when you stumble and keep going. When she tells you about the work she's doing ask her about her goals/dreams/ambitions etc.
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Not a bad idea, but.....fuck, isn't that a bit forward? I mean, if I were this girl, the obvious answer to "What are you always working on in here?" would be "Homework. What else? Seriously....".
With this suggestion, you're automatically assuming that she will
A) Be an all around nice and understanding girl. These days....it's really hard to find those.
b) That she's not in a big hurry to get what she's working on done. If she is, you going up and asking her about her dreams/life/goals is going to be a major pain in the ass. Then you've just killed your chances, not just this time, but for probably the rest of your life.
It's such a thin line. It sucks, but I'd rely upon eye contact. Once that eye contact is made, make a little smile and such.
Or you could give it time and then make your move, which would make the "I always see you in here" move much more founded and a good thing to say.
Either way, Pli, even if you don't want to have something with this girl or not, it's good training, and we're expecting that by the end of this year, you will have made contact.
You can do it bud.