alright im in a interesting situation kinda. hell if i know, just like to hear what other people have to say bout it. so any advise will be greatly appricated.
it started about a little over a month about 4 weeks give or take a week. but i met this girl and we started hangin out and what not, nothing serious though becuase i had just met her and so we started hanging out and then i started stayin the night at her place and she was stayin the night at my place. it was nothing serious but we both have had a great last couple of weeks and we both enjoy being together.
but then the other day she asked me what was goin on with the two of us and i told her what i thought and she said she felt the same way but that she didnt want to get into a serious relationship becuase she had just broken up with her b/f over christmas break that she had been with him for 3 years. she said that she wanted to be able to date other guys but didnt want anything between us to change. now when she said this i wasnt really sure what she meant when she said she didnt want anythign to change cuase we had been making out all the time, so i didnt know if she still wanted that but also to be able to date other guys. so i just kinda let it go and didnt think much of it. so then i hung out with her this weekend and stayed at her place.
well then tonight one of my friends told me he needed to talk to me bout her becuase he had also been hanging out with her and i knew this but i didnt know that they also had been kissing. so when i heard this it was kinda like a stab in the back. i wasnt mad at him but he knew that i had been stayin at her place and she had been stayin at my place. i was more so upset with her but she had told me that she didnt want a serious relationship but she wanted to be able to date other guys. she also told my friend the same thing becuase he had asked her what there was goin on between her and i and she told him and then continued to kiss him. i dont know what to think becuase she told me that she didnt want a relationship but she continues to kiss me and then goes and kisses him but doesnt say anything to me bout it and acts as if everything is ok... the only reason i knew this is becuase he brought it up and said we needed to talk bout it and get on the same page, which was a good thing cuase now i know more then i did before.
anyone have any idea on what i should do... she also invited me to go with her to purdue thursday night but this was before i knew she was making out with him and i dont want to back out and say i cant go. i kinda want to see what she does and see how she acts and then if she trys to do anything with me i'll tell her she needs to think bout what she wants becuase she is goin to end up hurting someone and it can easily be avoided.
so someone give me some advice..
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