Okay, this is another relationship question for you all to possibly help me with. I have been with the same girl since about February. Before that we'd gone out for three months. So basically it's been a year that I've only had my eyes set on this girl. I can't stop thinking about her, she's more than I could've have ever asked for, but there is something "missing" in a sense. I know that I probably sound like the world's most typical guy when I say this, but things seem to be moving slowly, if not at all as far as physically. That for me won't work for long, being of my testosterone driven nature, I eventually will get my kicks from the first opportunity I have. I don't want that to happen, but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend that I can't just keep getting by with making out. There are also outside forces pulling me away from her too. I have had multiple incidents where I've had to turn down girls interested in some "fun". If things keep pursuing as they are, I'm afraid I'm going to do something I'll regret forever. How do I tell my girlfriend that I want to get more physical without seeming cliche?
Also, I am not a newbie, I had to create a new I.D. for anonimoty reasons considering the nature of this post.
[ July 13, 2003, 11:16 PM: Message edited by: Deja Entendu ]
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