I currently have 57 matches open, with 7 of them in open communication. Only one of those 7 lives in Vegas. I really enjoy the conversation that I have with most of them. I've learned quite a few different conversation points when I meet new people. I changed my religious preference from spiritual to none. Months ago, I figured that would steer girls away but as soon as I changed it to none, the matches exploded. So I'm more honest AND getting better results. I also changed my occupation from "music educator" to "grad student." This got me many more returns. I believe it's due to the bias that people instantly get when you tell them your profession. Whether it's good or bad, it's there. "Grad student" only says you're going somewhere with your life but doesn't define where or what in. These changes have been huge in getting more responses.
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