Yeah, but I don't know I guess for a girl it's different. See for me, a relationship has more perks, let me elaborate...
1.) feeling more like I fit in with my peers (females my age)
2.) more money in my life (YES I still make my own money, but not really enough to live comfortably on, and NO I'm not a gold digger if I were I wouldn't have supported my boyfriend for a year and say 8 months that we've been together)
3.) never having to worry about not having something to do when your friends want to act like complete sluts and you don't like that lifestyle anymore
4.) never giving people a reason to call you a slut or anything like that
5.) forcing you to have more self-respect
6.) protecting myself from all the hurt I may go through bouncing around
I don't know I thought I would be able to think of more, but I can't at the moment, I'm too distracted...
Don't get me wrong there's cons too, but I always try to see the best in things I guess, I wish that a theory like this would work for me as well as it does for you, guys are wired much differently though I'm afraid
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