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bert · 02-25-2004, 03:02 AM

alright im in a interesting situation kinda. hell if i know, just like to hear what other people have to say bout it. so any advise will be greatly appricated.

it started about a little over a month about 4 weeks give or take a week. but i met this girl and we started hangin out and what not, nothing serious though becuase i had just met her and so we started hanging out and then i started stayin the night at her place and she was stayin the night at my place. it was nothing serious but we both have had a great last couple of weeks and we both enjoy being together.
but then the other day she asked me what was goin on with the two of us and i told her what i thought and she said she felt the same way but that she didnt want to get into a serious relationship becuase she had just broken up with her b/f over christmas break that she had been with him for 3 years. she said that she wanted to be able to date other guys but didnt want anything between us to change. now when she said this i wasnt really sure what she meant when she said she didnt want anythign to change cuase we had been making out all the time, so i didnt know if she still wanted that but also to be able to date other guys. so i just kinda let it go and didnt think much of it. so then i hung out with her this weekend and stayed at her place.
well then tonight one of my friends told me he needed to talk to me bout her becuase he had also been hanging out with her and i knew this but i didnt know that they also had been kissing. so when i heard this it was kinda like a stab in the back. i wasnt mad at him but he knew that i had been stayin at her place and she had been stayin at my place. i was more so upset with her but she had told me that she didnt want a serious relationship but she wanted to be able to date other guys. she also told my friend the same thing becuase he had asked her what there was goin on between her and i and she told him and then continued to kiss him. i dont know what to think becuase she told me that she didnt want a relationship but she continues to kiss me and then goes and kisses him but doesnt say anything to me bout it and acts as if everything is ok... the only reason i knew this is becuase he brought it up and said we needed to talk bout it and get on the same page, which was a good thing cuase now i know more then i did before.

anyone have any idea on what i should do... she also invited me to go with her to purdue thursday night but this was before i knew she was making out with him and i dont want to back out and say i cant go. i kinda want to see what she does and see how she acts and then if she trys to do anything with me i'll tell her she needs to think bout what she wants becuase she is goin to end up hurting someone and it can easily be avoided.

so someone give me some advice..

Ugly Bastard · 02-25-2004, 03:08 AM

Here's the rundown:

You've got a couple options. Firstly, if you do not mind the fact that she is making out with your friend, then just pretend you never found out about it, and go about your business problem solved.

However, if the fact that she is also doing stuff with your friend bothers you, you are left with two choices:

1.) Say "fuck it", and just stop seeing her, at least on a semi-romantic level.
2.) Sit down and talk with her, and tell her that it bothers you that she makes out with your friend too, and tell her that you do not wish to continue doing those things with her, as long as your friend is doing them with her too.

That's things as I see them, but what the fuck do I know, right?

There's always the third option of offing your friend, and consoling this girl at your friend's funeral, and fucking her thereafter. Good luck!! I only wish I had these problems to deal with.

-Ugly Bastard

bert · 02-25-2004, 03:10 AM

also he called her after we talked and told her that he was done becuase he doenst want to be gettin used. and that she cant be doin this to use.

Ugly Bastard · 02-25-2004, 03:14 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by bert:
also he called her after we talked and told her that he was done becuase he doenst want to be gettin used. and that she cant be doin this to use.

That's big. That's key. That makes her look like the bad guy (which she is).

Now, if in a time of horniness, your friend goes back on his word, and starts doing stuff with her again, then it's time to beat ass.

-Ugly Bastard

Mandarine · 02-25-2004, 03:15 AM

Hmm that is a interesting situation. More or less, play her game. Seems she really isnt sure what she wants and she is using the ex-bf as a crutch but i know it cant be easy to jump into something quickly after breakin up with someone after 3yrs. I would personally just tell her whats up and that your well aware that she wants to be able to date other guys... but it being your friend is a lil weird to you, having her kissing you and then right afterwards kissing him. Your right on the fact that eventually someone is going to get hurt, so someone needs to back down before that happens and it gets too involved. She is well aware of what she is doing and more or less is just getting away with it and having the best of both worlds, in the meantime making matters worse for the two of you. If I were you, Id probably continue on to Purdue but make sure you clear everything up with her by the end of the weekend.

Mandarine · 02-25-2004, 03:17 AM

Okay well now its a lil easier, while posting my last message, I missed the point that your friend called her and such. So.. its really up to you, but who knows how many other guys there really are..?! At least it isnt your friend anymore though.

Pliedes · 02-25-2004, 03:31 AM

Dump the bitch. She's not being straigh forward with you. And if your friend was serious about not seeing her again, the after you dump her, that's the end of it. How are you ever gonna know if she stayed with you just because she couldn't be with him.
Unless you're just trying to get some pussy, then do just that. Otherwise, toss her.

AcTivE · 02-25-2004, 03:33 AM

Get me some more guys on KingsOfChaos.

Mr. Blonde · 02-25-2004, 03:33 AM

Ok, if a girl i was hanging out with started making out with my friend at me at the same time i'd be pissed. She's playing both your asses, or at least was, and i'd make her either decide whether she wants it to be exclusive or to just be friends. Fucking trick hos.

AcTivE · 02-25-2004, 03:35 AM

I 5hink i'd ask myself if I really gave a fuck, or if I just wanted some vagina.

But I also don't know a damn thing.

AcTivE · 02-25-2004, 03:35 AM

my tv sends out this really annoying high pitched noise, it pisses me off

[ February 25, 2004, 12:36 AM: Message edited by: AcTivE ]

StabMaster Arson · 02-25-2004, 03:36 AM

why don't you just cum on her face and never call her again?

bert · 02-25-2004, 03:47 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by AcTivE:
Get me some more guys on KingsOfChaos.

i dont want to hear it, i hooked you up with over 25 soldiers today. now its your turn to do the same back.

AcTivE · 02-25-2004, 03:48 AM

stop the bullshit--who told you how to cheat? you cummed in your pants after you found out it was possible. don't lie.

Percipere'Chan · 02-25-2004, 03:51 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ugly Bastard:

...if you do not mind the fact that she is making out with [other guys]... then... problem solved.

Quote:

Originally posted by Mandarine:
More or less, play her game.

but

Quote:

Originally posted by Pliedes:
She's not being straight forward with you.

-

Quote:

Originally posted by bert:
[QB]...she said she... didnt want to get into a serious relationship.QB]

Tap dat ass.

-END OF LINE-

bert · 02-25-2004, 03:52 AM

i knew there was a possiblity but i didnt know who to get it to work, i sat here tryin to figure it out but i wasnt deleating the cookies so that was were i was gettin it wrong

also my roommate had informed me it was possible so i knew before i had asked you. but either way i will continue to help you out

[ February 25, 2004, 12:52 AM: Message edited by: bert ]

AcTivE · 02-25-2004, 03:54 AM

No no. Stop the bullshit. Who cares if your roomate told you? I don't. Who gave you the list when you needed it? I did. Face it--I'm a fucking genius.

Get back to work.

bert · 02-25-2004, 03:55 AM

nope, i already had the list, you just told me what to look up in google, i had already found the website.

Quote:

Originally posted by AcTivE:
Face it--I'm a fucking genius.

but i wont deny this and i will get back to work tomorrow.

AcTivE · 02-25-2004, 03:58 AM

yea you found it...but it took me telling you to use it? it takes persistance. there are a lot better ones out there than that...

AcTivE · 02-25-2004, 04:02 AM

I'm gonna put a site together...i'll send you link when I actually do it.

I want to fuck up ward..just because I think he'll flip once WE do. he's been spending a lot of time w/it

bert · 02-25-2004, 11:37 AM

i agree, im ready to take ward out, i have over 500 turns so i just need to get an ass load of soldiers then just start ripping him up afterwards

also i put a list together of all the IP's i got to work in one day and saved it so if you want it just tell me and i can send it to ya. but i've only been able to the the IP's with the 80 port to work

[ February 25, 2004, 08:38 AM: Message edited by: bert ]

bitch · 02-28-2004, 04:25 PM

All I have to say is double penetration.

VOL · 02-28-2004, 11:01 PM

All I have to say is lose her. She obviously isn't being true to you with honesty and what not. There's plenty more where that came from bert.

Ugly Bastard · 03-02-2004, 03:33 AM

So bert, have you fucked this girl yet or what?

-Ugly Bastard

bert · 03-02-2004, 03:38 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ugly Bastard:
So bert, have you fucked this girl yet or what?

-Ugly Bastard

[img]graemlins/fingas.gif[/img] what do you think [img]graemlins/fingas.gif[/img]

02-25-2004, 03:15 AM	#5 (permalink)
Mandarine Member Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Indiana Posts: 33 Internets: 10	Hmm that is a interesting situation. More or less, play her game. Seems she really isnt sure what she wants and she is using the ex-bf as a crutch but i know it cant be easy to jump into something quickly after breakin up with someone after 3yrs. I would personally just tell her whats up and that your well aware that she wants to be able to date other guys... but it being your friend is a lil weird to you, having her kissing you and then right afterwards kissing him. Your right on the fact that eventually someone is going to get hurt, so someone needs to back down before that happens and it gets too involved. She is well aware of what she is doing and more or less is just getting away with it and having the best of both worlds, in the meantime making matters worse for the two of you. If I were you, Id probably continue on to Purdue but make sure you clear everything up with her by the end of the weekend.
	Ich werde Sie cum machen.

02-25-2004, 03:17 AM	#6 (permalink)
Mandarine Member Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Indiana Posts: 33 Internets: 10	Okay well now its a lil easier, while posting my last message, I missed the point that your friend called her and such. So.. its really up to you, but who knows how many other guys there really are..?! At least it isnt your friend anymore though.
	Ich werde Sie cum machen.

02-25-2004, 03:33 AM	#8 (permalink)
AcTivE 1 thing leads to another. Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 2,012 Internets: -2654	Get me some more guys on KingsOfChaos.
	___________________ 3:o) horned creatures...wat wat ___________________

02-25-2004, 03:33 AM	#9 (permalink)
Mr. Blonde Spice Master Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 17,969 Internets: 284106	Ok, if a girl i was hanging out with started making out with my friend at me at the same time i'd be pissed. She's playing both your asses, or at least was, and i'd make her either decide whether she wants it to be exclusive or to just be friends. Fucking trick hos.
	Psychedelics are illegal not because a loving government is concerned that you may jump out of a third story window. Psychedelics are illegal because they dissolve opinion structures and culturally laid down models of behavior and information processing. ― Terence McKenna

02-25-2004, 03:35 AM	#10 (permalink)
AcTivE 1 thing leads to another. Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 2,012 Internets: -2654	I 5hink i'd ask myself if I really gave a fuck, or if I just wanted some vagina. But I also don't know a damn thing.
	___________________ 3:o) horned creatures...wat wat ___________________

02-25-2004, 03:02 AM	#1 (permalink)
bert Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 314 Internets: 10	alright im in a interesting situation kinda. hell if i know, just like to hear what other people have to say bout it. so any advise will be greatly appricated. it started about a little over a month about 4 weeks give or take a week. but i met this girl and we started hangin out and what not, nothing serious though becuase i had just met her and so we started hanging out and then i started stayin the night at her place and she was stayin the night at my place. it was nothing serious but we both have had a great last couple of weeks and we both enjoy being together. but then the other day she asked me what was goin on with the two of us and i told her what i thought and she said she felt the same way but that she didnt want to get into a serious relationship becuase she had just broken up with her b/f over christmas break that she had been with him for 3 years. she said that she wanted to be able to date other guys but didnt want anything between us to change. now when she said this i wasnt really sure what she meant when she said she didnt want anythign to change cuase we had been making out all the time, so i didnt know if she still wanted that but also to be able to date other guys. so i just kinda let it go and didnt think much of it. so then i hung out with her this weekend and stayed at her place. well then tonight one of my friends told me he needed to talk to me bout her becuase he had also been hanging out with her and i knew this but i didnt know that they also had been kissing. so when i heard this it was kinda like a stab in the back. i wasnt mad at him but he knew that i had been stayin at her place and she had been stayin at my place. i was more so upset with her but she had told me that she didnt want a serious relationship but she wanted to be able to date other guys. she also told my friend the same thing becuase he had asked her what there was goin on between her and i and she told him and then continued to kiss him. i dont know what to think becuase she told me that she didnt want a relationship but she continues to kiss me and then goes and kisses him but doesnt say anything to me bout it and acts as if everything is ok... the only reason i knew this is becuase he brought it up and said we needed to talk bout it and get on the same page, which was a good thing cuase now i know more then i did before. anyone have any idea on what i should do... she also invited me to go with her to purdue thursday night but this was before i knew she was making out with him and i dont want to back out and say i cant go. i kinda want to see what she does and see how she acts and then if she trys to do anything with me i'll tell her she needs to think bout what she wants becuase she is goin to end up hurting someone and it can easily be avoided. so someone give me some advice..

02-25-2004, 03:08 AM	#2 (permalink)
Ugly Bastard Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 13,643 Internets: 247330	Here's the rundown: You've got a couple options. Firstly, if you do not mind the fact that she is making out with your friend, then just pretend you never found out about it, and go about your business problem solved. However, if the fact that she is also doing stuff with your friend bothers you, you are left with two choices: 1.) Say "fuck it", and just stop seeing her, at least on a semi-romantic level. 2.) Sit down and talk with her, and tell her that it bothers you that she makes out with your friend too, and tell her that you do not wish to continue doing those things with her, as long as your friend is doing them with her too. That's things as I see them, but what the fuck do I know, right? There's always the third option of offing your friend, and consoling this girl at your friend's funeral, and fucking her thereafter. Good luck!! I only wish I had these problems to deal with. -Ugly Bastard

02-25-2004, 03:10 AM	#3 (permalink)
bert Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 314 Internets: 10	also he called her after we talked and told her that he was done becuase he doenst want to be gettin used. and that she cant be doin this to use.

02-25-2004, 03:31 AM	#7 (permalink)
Pliedes Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Puget Sound Posts: 4,594 Internets: 1608	Dump the bitch. She's not being straigh forward with you. And if your friend was serious about not seeing her again, the after you dump her, that's the end of it. How are you ever gonna know if she stayed with you just because she couldn't be with him. Unless you're just trying to get some pussy, then do just that. Otherwise, toss her.

02-25-2004, 03:35 AM	#11 (permalink)
AcTivE 1 thing leads to another. Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 2,012 Internets: -2654	my tv sends out this really annoying high pitched noise, it pisses me off [ February 25, 2004, 12:36 AM: Message edited by: AcTivE ]
	___________________ 3:o) horned creatures...wat wat ___________________

02-25-2004, 03:36 AM	#12 (permalink)
StabMaster Arson Roscoe P. Coldchain Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Stabbin Cabin Posts: 2,759 Internets: 1425	why don't you just cum on her face and never call her again?
	LEGALIZE CRIME!

02-25-2004, 03:48 AM	#14 (permalink)
AcTivE 1 thing leads to another. Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 2,012 Internets: -2654	stop the bullshit--who told you how to cheat? you cummed in your pants after you found out it was possible. don't lie.
	___________________ 3:o) horned creatures...wat wat ___________________

02-25-2004, 03:52 AM	#16 (permalink)
bert Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 314 Internets: 10	i knew there was a possiblity but i didnt know who to get it to work, i sat here tryin to figure it out but i wasnt deleating the cookies so that was were i was gettin it wrong also my roommate had informed me it was possible so i knew before i had asked you. but either way i will continue to help you out [ February 25, 2004, 12:52 AM: Message edited by: bert ]

02-25-2004, 03:54 AM	#17 (permalink)
AcTivE 1 thing leads to another. Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 2,012 Internets: -2654	No no. Stop the bullshit. Who cares if your roomate told you? I don't. Who gave you the list when you needed it? I did. Face it--I'm a fucking genius. Get back to work.
	___________________ 3:o) horned creatures...wat wat ___________________

02-25-2004, 03:58 AM	#19 (permalink)
AcTivE 1 thing leads to another. Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 2,012 Internets: -2654	yea you found it...but it took me telling you to use it? it takes persistance. there are a lot better ones out there than that...
	___________________ 3:o) horned creatures...wat wat ___________________

02-25-2004, 04:02 AM	#20 (permalink)
AcTivE 1 thing leads to another. Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 2,012 Internets: -2654	I'm gonna put a site together...i'll send you link when I actually do it. I want to fuck up ward..just because I think he'll flip once WE do. he's been spending a lot of time w/it
	___________________ 3:o) horned creatures...wat wat ___________________

02-25-2004, 11:37 AM	#21 (permalink)
bert Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 314 Internets: 10	i agree, im ready to take ward out, i have over 500 turns so i just need to get an ass load of soldiers then just start ripping him up afterwards also i put a list together of all the IP's i got to work in one day and saved it so if you want it just tell me and i can send it to ya. but i've only been able to the the IP's with the 80 port to work [ February 25, 2004, 08:38 AM: Message edited by: bert ]

02-28-2004, 04:25 PM	#22 (permalink)
bitch Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 116 Internets: 10	All I have to say is double penetration.

02-28-2004, 11:01 PM	#23 (permalink)
VOL Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: there Posts: 2,305 Internets: -205	All I have to say is lose her. She obviously isn't being true to you with honesty and what not. There's plenty more where that came from bert.
	~ductor ab grandis divinitus~ CDXXVII

03-02-2004, 03:33 AM	#24 (permalink)
Ugly Bastard Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 13,643 Internets: 247330	So bert, have you fucked this girl yet or what? -Ugly Bastard

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