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Schroeder · 10-21-2003, 03:27 AM

Alright, rla, you over this girl yet?

Combat Chuck · 10-21-2003, 01:50 PM

Schroeder, you will never ever know how hard it is to get over someone like this....or you haven't yet, so just shut the fuck up.

Orgazmo · 10-21-2003, 02:04 PM

Schroeder, Chuck said to shut the fuck up. What's your reply to that?

Pliedes · 10-21-2003, 02:10 PM

I assume he'll probably shut up. Schroeder definitely doesn't have the man-nuts to challenge Chuck to an OST to defend his honor.

[ October 21, 2003, 12:13 PM: Message edited by: Pliedes ]

Niger Angelus · 10-21-2003, 06:33 PM

Uhm, St. Anky's mom is from Spain dog.
About the girl, rla; do stuff with one of her friends.

Schroeder · 10-21-2003, 06:43 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Pliedes:
I assume he'll probably shut up. Schroeder definitely doesn't have the man-nuts to challenge Chuck to an OST to defend his honor.

Like I have any honor on Nubblies.

An OST is really not a good idea for me, considering I like Combat and the whole thing with me not cursing.

I don't like that he said something like that, but I'll deal. It's not like I haven't been made fun of before like this. If I hurt your feelings, rla, I'm sorry. I hope you find someone better.

rla128 · 10-22-2003, 12:32 AM

Of course after several weeks now, I am feeling a little better. Although, I still can't completely shake these stupid emotions that I have for her, and the pain the loss of that gives me. I've also got the frequent flashbacks (of sorts), when you'll almost forget we've broken up--or I'll remember something we did together--and then realize that I don't have that anymore, with much pain ensuing.

Part of the reason why things have gotten better is that her and I are starting to be on better speaking terms, with very little or no arguing. Also, of course, the fact that I'm involved in so much stuff (school, student council, friends, youth group, musical, etc.) which involves hanging out with generally happy people helps quite a bit.

Schroeder, shut up.

Everyone else--for the most part--thank you for all the support. Slowly but surely things are starting to get better, and the support of all of you people of awesomeness has been the source of some of that improvement.

Schroeder · 10-22-2003, 12:42 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by rla128:
Schroeder, shut up.

Yeah, I deserved that.

I hope things continue to get better for you, rla.

Pliedes · 10-22-2003, 12:51 AM

RLA, is it akward or depressing to hang out with her yet?

rla128 · 10-22-2003, 01:00 AM

It's rather a combination of the two, really. It's not as awkward as it was at first, although that aspect is still quite prevalent. I have been avoiding being around her too much, however, because it gets so freaking depressing if I'm around her too much.

Hopefully these things will pass, as I really do want to be good friends with her. As chuck said, however, that's gonna take a long, long while.

the_butcher · 10-22-2003, 03:10 AM

Alright, rla, simple question: did you guys fuck? Yeh it sounds very probing and crude, but did you? Because I have heard that causes extreme emotional attachment. So, if that's the case, do as Niger said, go fuck around with her friends. That'll get your mind off of her, I guarantee it.

St. Anky · 10-22-2003, 04:05 AM

thats funny how butcher's entire slam goes to bits due to his own ignorance. My hat is off to you dumbass, well done.

Pliedes · 10-22-2003, 02:03 PM

I still laughed.

Isn't it funny how Anky gets back on the board, but than really doesn't contribute anything; just like old times, eh? Hats off to you.

rla128 · 10-22-2003, 08:19 PM

No, we did not. It is my belief that sex should be saved for marriage, [enter long rambling argument that you've all heard before here].

Combat Chuck · 10-23-2003, 09:12 PM

Yeah, it really doesn't take fucking to cause extreme emotional attachment. But if you're fucking, and it's a real relationship and not just a relationship pertaining to physical attractiong, the whole sex part probably already means that you're incredibly attached to the chick.

Pliedes · 10-23-2003, 09:17 PM

I agree with Chuck on this. Whether you sexin' it up or not doesn't equate to emotional attachment, though it is often an indicator or plays a significant role.

For rla though, even though they weren't sleeping together, it still seems as though there was a strong emotional attachment.

Rla, keep us updated as to how you feel towards her and how she's acting towards you (if you want to, of course).

Niger Angelus · 10-24-2003, 05:29 PM

Trust do all you can to not think of her as a part of you. Do all you can to detach. Yeah... [img]smile.gif[/img]

rla128 · 11-06-2003, 01:34 AM

Update: Well, it's been over a month now, and I thought some of you mothers might want an update.

I have for the most part gotten over her. I still have flashbacks every once in a while, but I can deal with those. I suppose the fact that I'm so freaking busy lately with school, church, and the musical helps, too. Also, we are still somewhat of friends, which is good, I suppose.

Also, I've found another girl who I have taken much interest in. I'm taking things freaking slow, but as of lately we've both started to grow rather close to each other as friends. We both seem quite similar, and she seems to be the mature, interesting and intellecual kind of person I need.

Well, that is all.

Schroeder · 11-06-2003, 01:39 AM

best of luck to you, rla

10-21-2003, 06:33 PM	#55 (permalink)
Niger Angelus We still believe. Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 4,697 Internets: 216	Uhm, St. Anky's mom is from Spain dog. About the girl, rla; do stuff with one of her friends.
	I enjoy knives and fire.

10-22-2003, 03:10 AM	#61 (permalink)
the_butcher Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: ::: the recesses of my mind ::: Posts: 1,023 Internets: 10	Alright, rla, simple question: did you guys fuck? Yeh it sounds very probing and crude, but did you? Because I have heard that causes extreme emotional attachment. So, if that's the case, do as Niger said, go fuck around with her friends. That'll get your mind off of her, I guarantee it.
	\| bite the bullet and swallow lead \|

10-24-2003, 05:29 PM	#67 (permalink)
Niger Angelus We still believe. Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 4,697 Internets: 216	Trust do all you can to not think of her as a part of you. Do all you can to detach. Yeah... [img]smile.gif[/img]
	I enjoy knives and fire.

10-21-2003, 03:27 AM	#51 (permalink)
Schroeder Unwanted Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,543 Internets: -885	Alright, rla, you over this girl yet?

10-21-2003, 01:50 PM	#52 (permalink)
Combat Chuck Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 2,063 Internets: 10	Schroeder, you will never ever know how hard it is to get over someone like this....or you haven't yet, so just shut the fuck up.

10-21-2003, 02:04 PM	#53 (permalink)
Orgazmo COME ON YOU YANKS Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 15,733 Internets: 311447	Schroeder, Chuck said to shut the fuck up. What's your reply to that?

10-21-2003, 02:10 PM	#54 (permalink)
Pliedes Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Puget Sound Posts: 4,594 Internets: 1608	I assume he'll probably shut up. Schroeder definitely doesn't have the man-nuts to challenge Chuck to an OST to defend his honor. [ October 21, 2003, 12:13 PM: Message edited by: Pliedes ]

10-22-2003, 12:32 AM	#57 (permalink)
rla128 Another Brick in the Wall Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Warsaw, IN Posts: 392 Internets: 10	Of course after several weeks now, I am feeling a little better. Although, I still can't completely shake these stupid emotions that I have for her, and the pain the loss of that gives me. I've also got the frequent flashbacks (of sorts), when you'll almost forget we've broken up--or I'll remember something we did together--and then realize that I don't have that anymore, with much pain ensuing. Part of the reason why things have gotten better is that her and I are starting to be on better speaking terms, with very little or no arguing. Also, of course, the fact that I'm involved in so much stuff (school, student council, friends, youth group, musical, etc.) which involves hanging out with generally happy people helps quite a bit. Schroeder, shut up. Everyone else--for the most part--thank you for all the support. Slowly but surely things are starting to get better, and the support of all of you people of awesomeness has been the source of some of that improvement.

10-22-2003, 12:51 AM	#59 (permalink)
Pliedes Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Puget Sound Posts: 4,594 Internets: 1608	RLA, is it akward or depressing to hang out with her yet?

10-22-2003, 01:00 AM	#60 (permalink)
rla128 Another Brick in the Wall Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Warsaw, IN Posts: 392 Internets: 10	It's rather a combination of the two, really. It's not as awkward as it was at first, although that aspect is still quite prevalent. I have been avoiding being around her too much, however, because it gets so freaking depressing if I'm around her too much. Hopefully these things will pass, as I really do want to be good friends with her. As chuck said, however, that's gonna take a long, long while.

10-22-2003, 04:05 AM	#62 (permalink)
St. Anky Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 1,581 Internets: 6603	thats funny how butcher's entire slam goes to bits due to his own ignorance. My hat is off to you dumbass, well done.

10-22-2003, 02:03 PM	#63 (permalink)
Pliedes Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Puget Sound Posts: 4,594 Internets: 1608	I still laughed. Isn't it funny how Anky gets back on the board, but than really doesn't contribute anything; just like old times, eh? Hats off to you.

10-22-2003, 08:19 PM	#64 (permalink)
rla128 Another Brick in the Wall Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Warsaw, IN Posts: 392 Internets: 10	No, we did not. It is my belief that sex should be saved for marriage, [enter long rambling argument that you've all heard before here].

10-23-2003, 09:12 PM	#65 (permalink)
Combat Chuck Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 2,063 Internets: 10	Yeah, it really doesn't take fucking to cause extreme emotional attachment. But if you're fucking, and it's a real relationship and not just a relationship pertaining to physical attractiong, the whole sex part probably already means that you're incredibly attached to the chick.

10-23-2003, 09:17 PM	#66 (permalink)
Pliedes Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Puget Sound Posts: 4,594 Internets: 1608	I agree with Chuck on this. Whether you sexin' it up or not doesn't equate to emotional attachment, though it is often an indicator or plays a significant role. For rla though, even though they weren't sleeping together, it still seems as though there was a strong emotional attachment. Rla, keep us updated as to how you feel towards her and how she's acting towards you (if you want to, of course).

11-06-2003, 01:34 AM	#68 (permalink)
rla128 Another Brick in the Wall Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Warsaw, IN Posts: 392 Internets: 10	Update: Well, it's been over a month now, and I thought some of you mothers might want an update. I have for the most part gotten over her. I still have flashbacks every once in a while, but I can deal with those. I suppose the fact that I'm so freaking busy lately with school, church, and the musical helps, too. Also, we are still somewhat of friends, which is good, I suppose. Also, I've found another girl who I have taken much interest in. I'm taking things freaking slow, but as of lately we've both started to grow rather close to each other as friends. We both seem quite similar, and she seems to be the mature, interesting and intellecual kind of person I need. Well, that is all.

11-06-2003, 01:39 AM	#69 (permalink)
Schroeder Unwanted Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,543 Internets: -885	best of luck to you, rla