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07-22-2005, 12:52 PM
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Hello everyone, My name is Sargent, you can call me sarge. I found this website while browsing the net for porn so I figured I'd sign up and give it a go. I was glad to see that there was an advice section in this forum because I need some.
First, let me start by saying I am a straight male in my early 20's. I live on my own and I am a full time janitor (it pays the bills). Anyway that is besides the point, I just wanted to give you all some background on myself. Second, I need some advice. I have been with the same girl for the last 5 years (yes 5 long years) and I love her to death but I just recently found out she has been working as a stripper behind my back and sleeping with some of the guys that go to the club. We are engaged and our wedding date is in Sept. She is begging for forgiveness but Im not sure what to do. If anyone can give me some advice I would greatly appreciate it. |
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07-22-2005, 02:50 PM
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Magiclit & Malice: I have been pondering this thought for about a week now ever since she told me whats been going on but I am so madly in love with her I dont know if I can do it. She tells me that she is young (21) and needed to do something that excited her and get everything out of her system before we settled down. I'm not really sure if I can believe all of what she says because it goes to show she has no problem lying to me and the way I found out was so fucked up, she gave me an STD and claimed I gave it to her but I havent been with anyone else besides her for a long time.
Bloodyfart: I dont have any naked pics and I will not give away her location but I will show you a picture.  |
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07-22-2005, 02:59 PM
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Think objectively:
Girl works as a stripper behind guy's back... this is bad. Girl sleeps with stipper patrons behind guy's back... this is worse. Guy thinks she is trustworthy enough to marry her... this is faulty thinking biased only by your feelings. At least, you should postpone the wedding. |
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07-22-2005, 03:09 PM
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I love her already, she's smokin hot, doesnt mean shes a good person.
You can't turn a hoe into a housewife Sarg, you can do better, just don't be afraid to let go, I just left my ex, he was no good, and though i loved him, my pride ment more to me, thats something you have to ask yourself sarg, what matters more, your feelings or your pride? |
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I am all in favor of a ruling class, especially since I rule.
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07-22-2005, 05:41 PM
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i agree w/ DJ & clitmeister. who's ides was it to get married.
pros: she's hot likes to fuck you should be able to work out a 3-some w/ another chick from the club cons: too young to get married likes to fuck other people behind your back she basically lied to you about anything & everything she could she's probably a whore AND on coke. most of the strippers i know are promiscuous, but they don't take home their work. solution: PEOPLE LIKE THIS RARELY CHANGE you would be entering a serious financial and emotional commitment who for all intents and purposes is a horrible person. if you want to flush the next 5-15 years and half your shit down the toilet, you deserve it. not to mention the emotional wreck you will be throughout the entire process. i'm not disturbed by the fact that she strips. its the whole lying and cheating thing. i know it seems like you couldn't live without her at this point, but believe me, you can. if you just discovered this now, i can't even fathom the other shit she's been hiding. if you want revenge, indefinitely postpone the wedding. pretend like you're willing to try & accept her lifestyle (except for the cheating). start hinding your $$ and prepare for the break up so that you can split (or kick her out) on 24hrs notice. then you try to quickly but smoothly get her and one of her stripper friends in the sack. or, you could just fuck one of her coworkers, sitser, best friend etc... if you don't think lyou could follow through w/o taking her back, fuck it. just break up now. if you actually get married w/ her or try & reconcile, then cut off your balls right now. you won't be needing them anytime soon. hope this helps... |
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the poster formerly known as-Andy Kaufman
NHB Intergender Champion jiu-jitsu isn't the hardass frat guy yelling at you to funnel a beer. its the laid back guy in the corner workin' on 2 chicks. |
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07-22-2005, 05:57 PM
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lol.
what feminine wrists. |
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the poster formerly known as-Andy Kaufman
NHB Intergender Champion jiu-jitsu isn't the hardass frat guy yelling at you to funnel a beer. its the laid back guy in the corner workin' on 2 chicks. |
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07-24-2005, 01:19 AM
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Psychedelics are illegal not because a loving government is concerned that you may jump out of a third story window. Psychedelics are illegal because they dissolve opinion structures and culturally laid down models of behavior and information processing.
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07-25-2005, 11:40 AM
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Well people, first I'd like to thank everyone who had input on this situation, I have taken all of this feedback into consideration.
Second, let me tell all of you about my weekend. Friday night I got wasted and showed up at the club she works at, almost got my ass kicked by two of the scariest bouncers I have ever seen but luckily she saw me yelling at them and poke the one in the face and ran to my rescue (they were pissed). We went outside and talked for a little while then she said she had work to do (I knew what this meant) so I left and wondered aimlessly around the city until a thought popped in my head. It was something posted by Deadly Cresent Kick "then you try to quickly but smoothly get her and one of her stripper friends in the sack. or, you could just fuck one of her coworkers, sitser, best friend etc..." I called her sister and the sobb story began. I asked her to meet me at one of the local bars for a drink, she hesitated for a minute or two (probablly because she is only 18) but I explained that it was very important and I needed to talk to her. She agreed and we met around 12:30, I told her everything from the stripping to the STD, she was shocked and pretty pissed at her sister. I talked her into having a drink and got her a glass of wine knowing it would go down smooth and she would probably want a few more. As I expected she drank four glasses of wine. She was a little buzzed so I offered to drive her home (grabbing a 12 pack on the way out of the bar) but I did not take her to her home I took her to mine. She drank two beers during the ride home and was pretty shitty at this point (she stumbled down the walkway as I gladly put my arm around her waist to help her. We went inside and before I could even make a move on her she put her arms around me and began to stick her tounge in my mouth. I did not resist, I took her straight to my bedroom and proceeded to bang her bare back. After about 40 minutes of sexual enjoyment I finished up and let her fall asleep in the bed ass naked, I left the room and went to the living room where I sat on the couch (still buck naked) and cracked a beer (waiting for Jen to come home). An hour or so later I heard keys at the front door and in walked Jen and one of her friends. She just looked at me and said "why are you naked". I responded with "well thats because I just had sex with your sister". She gave a sarcastic laugh and said "no really why are you naked". I gave an even more sarcastic laugh and said "because I had sex with your sister". She shook her head and said to her friend "he's full of shit dont mind him, he had issues". I just laughed as she told me to sleep on the couch and walked her friend down the hallway to go to bed. She went to the room, turned the light on and said "WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING HERE? WHY ARE YOU IN MY BED? WHY ARE YOU NAKED?". I laughed out loud as I walked my naked ass to the fridge and grabbed another beer. Jen stormed out of the house crying her eyes out as her friend followed her shaking her head and giving me the evil eye. I locked the chain on the door and layed in bed with her sister. Thats all for now but it didnt end there, I will post more about my weekend when I get another chance. |
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07-25-2005, 11:52 AM
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LOL
that was a funny story, but now i have to call bullshit on you "sarge". |
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the poster formerly known as-Andy Kaufman
NHB Intergender Champion jiu-jitsu isn't the hardass frat guy yelling at you to funnel a beer. its the laid back guy in the corner workin' on 2 chicks. |
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07-25-2005, 12:26 PM
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I'm surprised he didn't have a 4 some with the friend, the sister, and the ex.
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Creeping around as I please nonchalantly like any other Supreme Emperor might.
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07-25-2005, 12:33 PM
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So I come on here for advice, I take the advice given, then you people tell me Im bull shitting? I would prove it to all of you but how? I did not take pictures, I did not video tape this affair and to tell you the truth I really dont care if any of you pussies believe my story.
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