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Thanks for the advice Repug, I would try it but I dont have a vagina like yourself. I too would like to help you with your problem, I hope this helps.........

HOW DO I PROTECT OTHERS FROM MY HIV/AIDS

The surest way to avoid transmission of sexually transmitted diseases is to abstain from sexual intercourse, or to be in a long-term mutually monogamous relationship with a partner who has been tested and you know is uninfected.
For persons whose sexual behaviors place them at risk for STDs, correct and consistent use of the male latex condom can reduce the risk of STD transmission. However, no protective method is 100 percent effective, and condom use cannot guarantee absolute protection against any STD.
If you are allergic to latex, you can use polyurethane (a type of plastic) condoms.
If male condoms are not available, use female condoms.
Condoms lubricated with spermicides are no more effective than other lubricated condoms in protecting against the transmission of HIV and other STDs. In order to achieve the protective effect of condoms, they must be used correctly and consistently. Incorrect use can lead to condom slippage or breakage, thus diminishing their protective effect. Inconsistent use, e.g., failure to use condoms with every act of intercourse, can lead to STD transmission because transmission can occur with a single act of intercourse.
For oral sex, use protection such as a condom, dental dam (a square piece of latex used by dentists), or plastic food wrap. Do not reuse these items.
Keep sex toys for your own use only and don’t use someone else’s sex toys.
Don’t share drug needles or drug works. In many places there are needle exchange programs. Use them. Better yet, seek help if you inject drugs.You can fight HIV much better if you don’t have a drug habit.
Tell people you’ve had sex with that you have HIV. This will not be easy, but it will help them get the help they need. Your local public health department may help you find these people and tell them they have been exposed to HIV. If they have HIV, this may help them get care and avoid spreading HIV to others.
If a woman you had sex with is pregnant, even if you are not the father, it is very important that you tell her you have HIV. If she has HIV, she needs to get early medical care for her own health and to protect her baby.
Don’t donate blood, plasma, or organs.
Keep razors or toothbrushes for your own use only and don’t use someone else’s razor or toothbrush. HIV can be spread through fresh blood on such items.
Family Planning and Pregnancy

IS THERE ANY SPECIAL ADVICE FOR WOMEN WITH HIV?

Yes. If you are a woman with HIV, your doctor should check you for sexually transmitted
diseases (STDs) and perform a Pap test at least once a year.

Women with HIV are more likely to have abnormal Pap tests. If your Pap test is abnormal, your doctor may need to repeat it or do other tests. If you have had an abnormal Pap test in the past, tell your doctor.

If you are thinking about either avoiding pregnancy or becoming pregnant, talk with your doctor about important issues such as:

What birth control methods are best for me?
Will HIV cause problems for me during pregnancy or delivery?
Will my baby have HIV?
Will treatment for my HIV infection cause problems for my baby?
If I am pregnant and want an abortion, where can I go for it? What if they won’t help me because I have HIV?
If I choose to get pregnant, what medical and community programs and support groups can help me and my baby?
What if I become pregnant?

If you become pregnant, talk to your doctor right away about medical care for you and your baby. You also need to plan for your child’s future in case you get sick.

Your HIV treatment will not change very much from what it was before you became pregnant. You should have a Pap test and tests for STDs during your pregnancy. Your doctor will order tests and suggest medicines for you to take. Talk with him or her about all the pros and cons of taking medicine while you are pregnant.

If you decide to have your baby, talk with your doctor about how you can prevent giving HIV to your baby. It is very important that you get good care early in your pregnancy. The chances of passing HIV to your baby before or during birth are about 1 in 4, or 25%, but treatment with zidovudine [zy-DAH-vue-deen], sometimes called ZDV, AZT, or Retrovir®*, has been shown togreatly lower this risk. Your doctor will want to have you on a drug treatment that includes ZDV.

Although you are pregnant, you should still use condoms each time you have sex, to avoid catching other diseases and to avoid spreading HIV. Even if your partner already has HIV, he should still use condoms.

After birth, your baby will need to be tested for HIV, even if you took ZDV and/or other drugs while you were pregnant. Your baby will need to take medicine to prevent HIV infection and PCP. Talk with your doctor about your baby’s special medical needs. Because HIV infection can be passed through breast milk, you should not
breast-feed your baby.

Where can I find help in fighting HIV?

If you are living with HIV or AIDS, you need many kinds of support - medical, emotional,
psychological, and, yes, financial. Your doctor, your local health and social services departments, your local AIDS service organization, and your local library can aid you in finding all kinds of help:

answers to your questions about HIV and AIDS
doctors, insurance, and help in making health care decisions
food, housing, and transportation
planning to meet financial and daily needs
support groups for you and your loved ones
home nursing care
help in legal matters, including Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) claims
confidential help in applying for Social Security disability benefits
You also can get information on these things from CDC-INFO 24 Hours/Day at 1-800-CDC-INFO (232-4636), 1-888-232-6348 (TTY), in English, en Español.

Many people living with HIV feel better if they can talk with other people who also have HIV. Here are some ways to find others with HIV:

Contact your local AIDS service organization. Look under "AIDS" or "Social Service Organizations" in the yellow pages of your telephone book.
Contact a local hospital, church, or American Red Cross chapter for referrals.
Read HIV newsletters or magazines.
Join support groups or Internet forums.
Volunteer to help others with HIV.
Be an HIV educator or public speaker, or work on a newsletter.
Attend social events to meet other people who have HIV.
Thousands of people are living with HIV, and AIDS, today. Many are leading full, happy, and productive lives. You can too if you work with your doctor and others and take the steps outlined in this booklet to stay healthy.