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Originally posted by the Butcher:
And who is to be the one to judge what counts as hypocracy? The one who is being judged? That's a little bias now, isn't it? I don't care if she led you on for a year. You didn't see it coming when you were with her, because people don't tend to think like that in relationships. And how are you to know that this couldn't just be the same? You don't. Quit living on top of the world, because you don't quite know how quickly you can fall.
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To start I'll answer those first three questions.
1. I am.
2. Sure.
3. Yes, point?
Of course I didn't see it coming, it happens. People indeed do tend to not think like that in relationships, if they did, it would just end the relationship pointlessly faster. As for this one, hell, it might end up being just the same, that's a risk I'm willing to take. It'd be the same risk no matter who I was with. I'd much rather at least try to live on top of the world and risk falling a few times as compared to just sitting at the bottom not doing anything at all. Of course I know that I could fall, it's happened before, just not as extreme as in some other people's cases.
As of now, I'm happy as hell in the relationship I'm in. Sure, it got insanely fucked up for awhile there, that'll happen. I do what I think has the best potential to make me happy. I'm happy with my girlfriend, and up until recently I was happy with the people I thought were my friends. The same people I figured were my friends based on who I am, not who I'm going out with. I didn't want everyone to get their undies in a bundle over this, neither did she. It sucks that I have to fucking question who my friends are, but since I do, I'm left with no other option than to type shit onto this board instead of actually talking to people, which is something that seems to have been replaced with looking in another direction and then bitching about it afterwards.
This entire deal is fucking stupid.