25 is reasonable I guess, although if I do get married,
a possibility which I stray from more and more every day, it won't be until i'm at least 30. I'd like to continue having sex during at least my mid-20's thank you very much.
I agree with you on the baby thing. I have this thing with girls who have babies....they're pretty much damaged goods. That's honestly how I see them. That' might change over time, just like how when we're all in highschool or whatever if a girl isn't a virgin then she's a slut, and now I could give a fuck less how many guys a girl has slept with as long as she gives it up.
It's weird how I see it...women who are married and have kids I see as okay, women who aren't I don't. I just see that they fucked up and should have been smarter about their choice in a mate, or, as you said, should have been on BC or gotten an abortion. And I subsequently can't take them seriously and no matter how hot or cool they are (there are several go-go dancers out here who i've been talking to for a while who are hot as fuck but have kids and also dance practically naked at nightclubs every night...not exactly gf material), I still seem them as someone I could never date. Maybe fuck around with, but I have a feeling that if I take these girls out they might not give it up as they've already seen the consequences of careless fucking, combined with the fact that they have a kid and are getting older and are probably looking for a serious mate and someone to take care of their goddamn kid, which I would probably never do.
You're exactly right Malibu, they keep the kid thinking they want to be responsible and adult like and that abortion is wrong, yet they haven't grown up yet at all, and still party all the time.
As for your boyfriend, while i'm still against marriage altogether, Beebs is kinda right, a year isn't really that extreme at all. If you think that he's young and immature and you think you'd rather eventually marry an older guy, then what the fuck are you doing in this relationship? Honestly I don't think relationships are worth being in unless you can sincerely see yourself marrying that person someday, or you're in it just because you're getting crazy sex like all of the time, neither of which seem to be you.