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rla128 · 10-06-2003, 11:13 PM

Hooray for love... add another to the list of people who've had their hearts torn out.

"I just don't feel the same about you anymore... It's not you, it's me. I still want to be close friends with you, though..."

Somebody shoot me, I swear.

Combat Chuck · 10-06-2003, 11:35 PM

Can somebody give girls a book of overused breakup lines? I swear, if I hear "It's not you, it's me." one more time, I'm gonna rape the girl right there and then, and no one can say that they didn't ask for it.

Oh, and I'm really sorry rla. Really really sorry. I know that it sucks. But hang in there.

[ October 06, 2003, 09:36 PM: Message edited by: Combat Chuck ]

rla128 · 10-06-2003, 11:42 PM

I don't like to swear much, but I was in love with that girl for a whole fucking year, and now this shit. I swear, I gave her a ring because I was so in love with her...

..and now this crap.

bitch · 10-06-2003, 11:45 PM

High school relationships rarely work out, when are people going to learn.

Titan · 10-06-2003, 11:47 PM

It's nothing to do with whether one's in high school or not, it's to do with levels of maturity.

rla128 · 10-06-2003, 11:50 PM

I don't mean to sound judgemental, but I think I have a pretty good maturity level, and well, she didn't... Blech.

Oh, and bitch, they never will. Why? Ignorance is blyss.

*stabs his heart out, throws it on the ground, and stomps on it*

the_butcher · 10-06-2003, 11:52 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Titan:
...it's got to do with levels of maturity.

It's not maturity, and it's got nothing to do with you, it's me...

Wait a second......shit.

Titan · 10-07-2003, 12:36 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by rla128:
I don't mean to sound judgemental, but I think I have a pretty good maturity level, and well, she didn't...

Eeeeeeeexactly.

Pliedes · 10-07-2003, 12:43 AM

I do feel bad for you RLA, it's always hard, no matter if it's a high school relationship or anything it all, it's still hard.

What actually happen between you two that made it dissipate?

VOL · 10-07-2003, 12:18 PM

i agree with Pliedes, it is hard RLA, just hang in there and the next best thing is find another and move on . don't dwell on this loss for a long period of time

Schroeder · 10-07-2003, 12:35 PM

Yeah, there are plenty of fish in the sea.

However, that is irrelevant. There are plenty more girls/women to go after.

VOL · 10-07-2003, 12:38 PM

once again another lame attempt at a joke

Deep Kick · 10-07-2003, 07:36 PM

My heart sort-of goes out to you RLA. But that's what happens when kids try to find love in highschool.

VOL, you and Schroeder really do need to fucking team up and form the super-fucking-dipshit faction. Then you guys can offer moral support to one another, and perhaps even sexual favors.

Schroeder · 10-07-2003, 07:49 PM

Deep Kick, maybe you could start a support group for yourself and all your other Nubblies personas.

Deep Kick · 10-07-2003, 08:03 PM

Great idea Schroeder. I mean, afterall, it isn't obvious at all that I'm a duplicate identity. Thank goodness Sherlock Schroeder came to the rescue to point that out.

Schroeder, no matter how many principles you follow, you will still always be a dipshit. Sure, you may only have 1 account, but that doesn't make you cool. Fucker.

victim · 10-07-2003, 08:09 PM

Wow... I really don't know who to insult (Vol, Deep Kick, or Schroeder)... you all make such prime targets. This is a lot like the paradox of Buridan's Ass... wait, fuck that... and fuck all three of you too.

Sorry to here of your loss, rla128... it happens.

getupkids · 10-07-2003, 08:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by VOL:
i agree with Pliedes, it is hard RLA, just hang in there and the next best thing is find another and move on . don't dwell on this loss for a long period of time

Quote:

Originally posted by VOL:
once again another lame attempt at a joke

Once again, agreeing with people without making a post of any substance..WHATSOEVER..
RLA: just give it time. Maybe she just needs a break, and will realize how much she really does like you. I made that mistake once, unfortunately, once I realized I really liked him a lot, he had moved on. I was with this person for a year as well. People are telling you to move on, I disagree. Give her time to realize what she did, and give her space. There's a good chance she really does like you, she just doesn't realize it because she needs her space. Take this from someone who made the EXACT same mistake as her.

ttbabe23 · 10-07-2003, 09:28 PM

i feel for ya rla

tonguegina · 10-07-2003, 09:35 PM

Keep your chin up...you can do it...is there any other useless and unwanted catch phrases we can throw in here? Shit happens. Has that one been done?

I'd say I know how you feel, but damn it, I'm sorry, but I don't.

Here's one to leave you with, "Life sucks, get a fucking helmet."

rla128 · 10-07-2003, 11:07 PM

Thank you all for the support. With the help of some depressing music (Dashboard, Denison Witmer, Pedro, etc.) I hope to feel better... sometime.

The reason things started getting bad was, well, things have been kinda rough lately. We've argued over stupid little things a lot, and we just seemed to disagree on a lot (even though we didn't really disagree so much as it turned out). Things had just been really hard in her life, and I feel really accusing, but the way she acted... it made it hard for me to make her happy. So many times I heard from her, "I don't wanna talk about it," or "I'll be fine." Over time this just kind of builty up, and she apparently started to lose the feeling for me, and she fell out of love with me. Apparently I just didn't make her happy anymore.

But it wasn't me... it was all her.

Anyways, so yeah, my life is living hell right now, and it probably will be for a while. Thanks for the advice getupkids, I'll just be kinda casual friends with her for a while and give her time to really think things out... and in the meantime I'll have some time to think about our relationship, too.

Thank you all for the support. I'll keep you posted, or something.

edit: Gosh dangit, last night I kind of let things get out of hand in yelling at her about stuff that she did and stuff, and today when I apologize she gets hysterical, and says she can't believe that I'm sorry, and she probably won't ever be able to after the things I said to her. I was trying to be freaking sincere, and she just would not take me seriously. You girls... AHH!

[ October 07, 2003, 09:45 PM: Message edited by: rla128 ]

Pliedes · 10-08-2003, 01:28 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by rla128:
Denison Witmer

Denison is my god.

Schroeder · 10-08-2003, 02:47 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by rla128:
Thank you all for the support. With the help of some depressing music (Dashboard, Denison Witmer, Pedro, etc.) I hope to feel better... sometime.

Why'd you listen to depressing music if you want to cheer up?

rla, we're all just kids. You've got your whole life ahead of you. Why get bogged down on one girl? I know: "but this girl is different". Sorry, chances are she probably isn't. I know you'd devoted a large part of yourself and of your time to this girl, but you'll learn to move on. Before you know it, you'll meet somebody new, and you'll barely even remember this experience.

Best of luck to you in the future.

Combat Chuck · 10-08-2003, 03:26 AM

Because depressing music helps you to relate to depressing moods, and to know that there are people out there just like you.

That's why pliedes epitomizes Denison Witmer (and why you should too). Denison was pliedes' helping hand when things got rough because Denison related to pliedes through the music.

Seriously, no one wants to listen to happy boppy stuff when they're fucking depressed.

And rla, try not to dwell on things. That's what I did, and it took me so long to get over her, and now that I look back on it, I have no idea why.

AND DON'T GET BACK WITH HER. Things just end up being worse that way, because this breakup is real, and it will always be there. However, what do I know? All I know is that if I had gotten back with my highschool love, it would have sucked even more, and made things much harder in the long run.

So yeah, things DO GET BETTER. Just give it time. It sucks, but give it time. And don't try to crowd her, or be where she is. It just brings back shit and leads to yelling.

Titan · 10-08-2003, 09:22 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Combat Chuck:
Seriously, no one wants to listen to happy boppy stuff when they're fucking depressed.

Honestly Schroeder, it's that simple.
Congratulations on either:
A. Never having been sad in your entire life
2. Not listening to music, ever.
and/or
D. Not knowing your ass from a flaming pile of monkey spunk.

Niger Angelus · 10-08-2003, 10:50 AM

Pimp slap the bitch. Eh, it's and idea.

10-06-2003, 11:47 PM	#5 (permalink)
Titan Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 3,698 Internets: 10	It's nothing to do with whether one's in high school or not, it's to do with levels of maturity.
	I do what the fuck I want.

10-07-2003, 12:18 PM	#10 (permalink)
VOL Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: there Posts: 2,305 Internets: -205	i agree with Pliedes, it is hard RLA, just hang in there and the next best thing is find another and move on . don't dwell on this loss for a long period of time
	~ductor ab grandis divinitus~ CDXXVII

10-07-2003, 12:38 PM	#12 (permalink)
VOL Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: there Posts: 2,305 Internets: -205	once again another lame attempt at a joke
	~ductor ab grandis divinitus~ CDXXVII

10-07-2003, 07:36 PM	#13 (permalink)
Deep Kick Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 136 Internets: 10	My heart sort-of goes out to you RLA. But that's what happens when kids try to find love in highschool. VOL, you and Schroeder really do need to fucking team up and form the super-fucking-dipshit faction. Then you guys can offer moral support to one another, and perhaps even sexual favors.
	Shut Your Fucking Face.

10-07-2003, 08:03 PM	#15 (permalink)
Deep Kick Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 136 Internets: 10	Great idea Schroeder. I mean, afterall, it isn't obvious at all that I'm a duplicate identity. Thank goodness Sherlock Schroeder came to the rescue to point that out. Schroeder, no matter how many principles you follow, you will still always be a dipshit. Sure, you may only have 1 account, but that doesn't make you cool. Fucker.
	Shut Your Fucking Face.

10-06-2003, 11:13 PM	#1 (permalink)
rla128 Another Brick in the Wall Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Warsaw, IN Posts: 392 Internets: 10	Hooray for love... add another to the list of people who've had their hearts torn out. "I just don't feel the same about you anymore... It's not you, it's me. I still want to be close friends with you, though..." Somebody shoot me, I swear.

10-06-2003, 11:35 PM	#2 (permalink)
Combat Chuck Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 2,063 Internets: 10	Can somebody give girls a book of overused breakup lines? I swear, if I hear "It's not you, it's me." one more time, I'm gonna rape the girl right there and then, and no one can say that they didn't ask for it. Oh, and I'm really sorry rla. Really really sorry. I know that it sucks. But hang in there. [ October 06, 2003, 09:36 PM: Message edited by: Combat Chuck ]

10-06-2003, 11:42 PM	#3 (permalink)
rla128 Another Brick in the Wall Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Warsaw, IN Posts: 392 Internets: 10	I don't like to swear much, but I was in love with that girl for a whole fucking year, and now this shit. I swear, I gave her a ring because I was so in love with her... ..and now this crap.

10-06-2003, 11:45 PM	#4 (permalink)
bitch Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 116 Internets: 10	High school relationships rarely work out, when are people going to learn.

10-06-2003, 11:50 PM	#6 (permalink)
rla128 Another Brick in the Wall Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Warsaw, IN Posts: 392 Internets: 10	I don't mean to sound judgemental, but I think I have a pretty good maturity level, and well, she didn't... Blech. Oh, and bitch, they never will. Why? Ignorance is blyss. stabs his heart out, throws it on the ground, and stomps on it

10-07-2003, 12:43 AM	#9 (permalink)
Pliedes Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Puget Sound Posts: 4,594 Internets: 1608	I do feel bad for you RLA, it's always hard, no matter if it's a high school relationship or anything it all, it's still hard. What actually happen between you two that made it dissipate?

10-07-2003, 12:35 PM	#11 (permalink)
Schroeder Unwanted Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,543 Internets: -885	Yeah, there are plenty of fish in the sea. However, that is irrelevant. There are plenty more girls/women to go after.

10-07-2003, 07:49 PM	#14 (permalink)
Schroeder Unwanted Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,543 Internets: -885	Deep Kick, maybe you could start a support group for yourself and all your other Nubblies personas.

10-07-2003, 08:09 PM	#16 (permalink)
victim Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 985 Internets: 10	Wow... I really don't know who to insult (Vol, Deep Kick, or Schroeder)... you all make such prime targets. This is a lot like the paradox of Buridan's Ass... wait, fuck that... and fuck all three of you too. Sorry to here of your loss, rla128... it happens.
	get off my internet!!!

10-07-2003, 09:28 PM	#18 (permalink)
ttbabe23 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 147 Internets: 10	i feel for ya rla
	just do it ok...

10-07-2003, 09:35 PM	#19 (permalink)
tonguegina I like dirt. Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 2,861 Internets: 2790	Keep your chin up...you can do it...is there any other useless and unwanted catch phrases we can throw in here? Shit happens. Has that one been done? I'd say I know how you feel, but damn it, I'm sorry, but I don't. Here's one to leave you with, "Life sucks, get a fucking helmet."

10-07-2003, 11:07 PM	#20 (permalink)
rla128 Another Brick in the Wall Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Warsaw, IN Posts: 392 Internets: 10	Thank you all for the support. With the help of some depressing music (Dashboard, Denison Witmer, Pedro, etc.) I hope to feel better... sometime. The reason things started getting bad was, well, things have been kinda rough lately. We've argued over stupid little things a lot, and we just seemed to disagree on a lot (even though we didn't really disagree so much as it turned out). Things had just been really hard in her life, and I feel really accusing, but the way she acted... it made it hard for me to make her happy. So many times I heard from her, "I don't wanna talk about it," or "I'll be fine." Over time this just kind of builty up, and she apparently started to lose the feeling for me, and she fell out of love with me. Apparently I just didn't make her happy anymore. But it wasn't me... it was all her. Anyways, so yeah, my life is living hell right now, and it probably will be for a while. Thanks for the advice getupkids, I'll just be kinda casual friends with her for a while and give her time to really think things out... and in the meantime I'll have some time to think about our relationship, too. Thank you all for the support. I'll keep you posted, or something. edit: Gosh dangit, last night I kind of let things get out of hand in yelling at her about stuff that she did and stuff, and today when I apologize she gets hysterical, and says she can't believe that I'm sorry, and she probably won't ever be able to after the things I said to her. I was trying to be freaking sincere, and she just would not take me seriously. You girls... AHH! [ October 07, 2003, 09:45 PM: Message edited by: rla128 ]

10-08-2003, 03:26 AM	#23 (permalink)
Combat Chuck Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 2,063 Internets: 10	Because depressing music helps you to relate to depressing moods, and to know that there are people out there just like you. That's why pliedes epitomizes Denison Witmer (and why you should too). Denison was pliedes' helping hand when things got rough because Denison related to pliedes through the music. Seriously, no one wants to listen to happy boppy stuff when they're fucking depressed. And rla, try not to dwell on things. That's what I did, and it took me so long to get over her, and now that I look back on it, I have no idea why. AND DON'T GET BACK WITH HER. Things just end up being worse that way, because this breakup is real, and it will always be there. However, what do I know? All I know is that if I had gotten back with my highschool love, it would have sucked even more, and made things much harder in the long run. So yeah, things DO GET BETTER. Just give it time. It sucks, but give it time. And don't try to crowd her, or be where she is. It just brings back shit and leads to yelling.

10-08-2003, 10:50 AM	#25 (permalink)
Niger Angelus We still believe. Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 4,697 Internets: 216	Pimp slap the bitch. Eh, it's and idea.
	I enjoy knives and fire.