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Do The Shuffle · 06-24-2005, 03:59 AM

After many months, I listened to Mr. Blonde and DJ FC and signed up to have my life ruined as well. Thanks for the opportunity. Need some advice. My girlfriend's dad hit her last night in a way that was more than a slap, but less than a punch, which really surprised me (he is Hispanic, so I don't know why this surprised me, or why it took so long for him to do it). Racism aside, when he winds up blind, tongue-less, or dead, should I tell her it was me, or not? PS I'm a pussy and probably not going to do anything, which is why I'm called Menny in the first place....

malice · 06-24-2005, 09:22 AM

You should learn from him and the next time she wises off to you pop her in the mouth.

Deadly Crescent Kick · 06-24-2005, 09:55 AM

how old is your GF?

well, if you're going to do something, don't tell her. keep it to yourself. the unfortunate reality is that you can't be 100% sure you'll always be together.

in some twisted way, if you two break up she can use it against you.

no one should know if you fuck him up. not even him.

i'm surprised tht he would crack her in front of you. what a scumbag. does he deal drugs?

Ironic Mustache · 06-24-2005, 12:20 PM

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Originally posted by Deadly Crescent Kick:
what a scumbag. does he deal drugs?

Did you miss this part?

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he is Hispanic

Deadly Crescent Kick · 06-24-2005, 12:40 PM

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Originally posted by Ironic Mustache:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Deadly Crescent Kick:
what a scumbag. does he deal drugs?

Did you miss this part?

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he is Hispanic

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yeah, i caught that. but some only use drugs and make their $$ from theft.

Deadly Crescent Kick · 06-24-2005, 12:40 PM

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Originally posted by Ironic Mustache:
<blockquote>quote:<hr />Originally posted by Deadly Crescent Kick:
what a scumbag. does he deal drugs?

Did you miss this part?

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he is Hispanic

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yeah, i caught that. but some only use drugs and make their $$ from theft.

bloodyfart · 06-24-2005, 12:59 PM

tell her to call the cops. if she doesnt want to, then dont bother beating his ass. its not worth going to jail over some chick that doesnt even want defend herself.

[ June 24, 2005, 10:59 AM: Message edited by: bloodyfart ]

MAGICLIT · 06-24-2005, 01:13 PM

Bloody's right, if the chick is over 18 then she has the choice to leave. My father and I got into before, over some stupid shit, and he said "I should pop you one right now" (hes never hit me, but he's from the old school back in BK) i said "then go ahead and try to pop me one Pop" he didnt of course, he knew i was taking that kind of threat, needless to say, we slept it off and woke up the next morning like nothing ever happened.

farawayfromhere · 06-24-2005, 01:15 PM

Try and talk her into doing something about it like Bloody said, calling the cops. If she won't then she will be pissed at you for doing anything. You can't help someone who won't help themselves.

Ironic Mustache · 06-24-2005, 01:19 PM

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Originally posted by MAGICLIT:
he knew i was taking that kind of threat, needless to say, we slept it off in the same bed and woke up the next morning like nothing ever happened.

Gross.

malice · 06-24-2005, 01:20 PM

I was thinking the same thing.

MAGICLIT · 06-24-2005, 01:28 PM

aww, shut up, i was at my house, he was at his, stupid jj.net guys

bloodyfart · 06-24-2005, 01:34 PM

playing the hero only puts you in the awful position of being her emotional wastebasket when the shit goes down. and trust me, all the emotions acted out in that situation are not going to be fun to deal with.
its not your responsibility to save the world.

do what you can, but dont put yourself at risk.

Ironic Mustache · 06-24-2005, 01:47 PM

bloodyfart, the level head of jj.net.

Deadly Crescent Kick · 06-24-2005, 01:48 PM

wha wha what?!?

if you're in a serious relationship and someone starts smacking your GF around, you ignore it?

if this is some girl he's casually dating, then i agree. but no one's smacking my bitch around but me!

bloodyfart · 06-24-2005, 01:52 PM

im not saying that he ignores the situation. he should urge her to call the police. but if she wont, he needs to protect himself from the misery that she will drag him into.

some people are toxic. this could be one of those cases.

Deadly Crescent Kick · 06-24-2005, 02:57 PM

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Originally posted by bloodyfart:
some people are toxic. this could be one of those cases.

would you say mustache & repug are toxic?

bloodyfart · 06-24-2005, 03:08 PM

mustache is noxious.

MAGICLIT · 06-24-2005, 03:09 PM

LOL, and repug?

malice · 06-24-2005, 03:17 PM

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Originally posted by Deadly Crescent Kick:
wha wha what?!?

if you're in a serious relationship and someone starts smacking your GF around, you ignore it?

if this is some girl he's casually dating, then i agree. but no one's smacking my bitch around but me!

AK has anal raped the correct then smacked her in the mouth!

bloodyfart · 06-24-2005, 03:22 PM

repug?
obnoxious.

06-24-2005, 05:06 PM

Menny,

Welcome to Nubblies! If you stay around a while, especially until Fall semester, you will be pleased with what Nubblies has to offer.

As to your dilemma, I think It is obvious that most members think you should probably keep minimal contact with her father on this issue, and I agree. She has put you in a lose-lose scenario and probably the best course of action would be for her to contact the police should this become a reoccurring thing or most hopefully to take it with a grain of salt and continue on with life; not forgetting the incident, but also not holding a vicious grudge.

Just my opinion.

bloodyfart · 06-24-2005, 06:09 PM

and you should post pics of her naked so we know what you are dealing with

MAGICLIT · 06-24-2005, 06:30 PM

I love how Brently thinks.

Beebs · 06-24-2005, 06:52 PM

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Originally posted by DJ FC:
Menny,

Oh shit, thats him?

06-24-2005, 03:59 AM	#1 (permalink)
Do The Shuffle Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Ball State - 1122 Rex Street Posts: 5 Internets: 10	After many months, I listened to Mr. Blonde and DJ FC and signed up to have my life ruined as well. Thanks for the opportunity. Need some advice. My girlfriend's dad hit her last night in a way that was more than a slap, but less than a punch, which really surprised me (he is Hispanic, so I don't know why this surprised me, or why it took so long for him to do it). Racism aside, when he winds up blind, tongue-less, or dead, should I tell her it was me, or not? PS I'm a pussy and probably not going to do anything, which is why I'm called Menny in the first place....
	"KKK adopts a highway. Joke's on them - it's black." - Jon Stewart

06-24-2005, 09:55 AM	#3 (permalink)
Deadly Crescent Kick NJ, Toilet Bowl of USA Join Date: May 2005 Location: secret ninja lair Posts: 1,106 Internets: 10	how old is your GF? well, if you're going to do something, don't tell her. keep it to yourself. the unfortunate reality is that you can't be 100% sure you'll always be together. in some twisted way, if you two break up she can use it against you. no one should know if you fuck him up. not even him. i'm surprised tht he would crack her in front of you. what a scumbag. does he deal drugs?
	the poster formerly known as-Andy Kaufman NHB Intergender Champion jiu-jitsu isn't the hardass frat guy yelling at you to funnel a beer. its the laid back guy in the corner workin' on 2 chicks.

06-24-2005, 12:59 PM	#7 (permalink)
bloodyfart Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: side control Posts: 2,044 Internets: 203	tell her to call the cops. if she doesnt want to, then dont bother beating his ass. its not worth going to jail over some chick that doesnt even want defend herself. [ June 24, 2005, 10:59 AM: Message edited by: bloodyfart ]
	<b>We're here, and we're queer, so get used to it</b>

06-24-2005, 01:13 PM	#8 (permalink)
MAGICLIT Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: city of sin Posts: 2,753 Internets: 10	Bloody's right, if the chick is over 18 then she has the choice to leave. My father and I got into before, over some stupid shit, and he said "I should pop you one right now" (hes never hit me, but he's from the old school back in BK) i said "then go ahead and try to pop me one Pop" he didnt of course, he knew i was taking that kind of threat, needless to say, we slept it off and woke up the next morning like nothing ever happened.
	I am all in favor of a ruling class, especially since I rule.

06-24-2005, 01:15 PM	#9 (permalink)
farawayfromhere Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: a land far far away Posts: 449 Internets: 10	Try and talk her into doing something about it like Bloody said, calling the cops. If she won't then she will be pissed at you for doing anything. You can't help someone who won't help themselves.
	"I always tell the girls never take it seriously. If you never take it seriously then you never get hurt. If you never get hurt then you always have fun, and if you ever get lonely you can just go to the record store and visit your friends."

06-24-2005, 09:22 AM	#2 (permalink)
malice Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Bustleton Ave. Philadelphia, PA. Posts: 648 Internets: 10	You should learn from him and the next time she wises off to you pop her in the mouth.

06-24-2005, 01:20 PM	#11 (permalink)
malice Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Bustleton Ave. Philadelphia, PA. Posts: 648 Internets: 10	I was thinking the same thing.

06-24-2005, 01:28 PM	#12 (permalink)
MAGICLIT Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: city of sin Posts: 2,753 Internets: 10	aww, shut up, i was at my house, he was at his, stupid jj.net guys
	I am all in favor of a ruling class, especially since I rule.

06-24-2005, 01:34 PM	#13 (permalink)
bloodyfart Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: side control Posts: 2,044 Internets: 203	playing the hero only puts you in the awful position of being her emotional wastebasket when the shit goes down. and trust me, all the emotions acted out in that situation are not going to be fun to deal with. its not your responsibility to save the world. do what you can, but dont put yourself at risk.
	<b>We're here, and we're queer, so get used to it</b>

06-24-2005, 01:47 PM	#14 (permalink)
Ironic Mustache G'd up from the feet up. Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Cali Posts: 7,146 Supreme Emperor of the Jiu Jitsu Shit Forum?: Yes Internets: 114735	bloodyfart, the level head of jj.net.
	Creeping around as I please nonchalantly like any other Supreme Emperor might.

06-24-2005, 01:48 PM	#15 (permalink)
Deadly Crescent Kick NJ, Toilet Bowl of USA Join Date: May 2005 Location: secret ninja lair Posts: 1,106 Internets: 10	wha wha what?!? if you're in a serious relationship and someone starts smacking your GF around, you ignore it? if this is some girl he's casually dating, then i agree. but no one's smacking my bitch around but me!
	the poster formerly known as-Andy Kaufman NHB Intergender Champion jiu-jitsu isn't the hardass frat guy yelling at you to funnel a beer. its the laid back guy in the corner workin' on 2 chicks.

06-24-2005, 01:52 PM	#16 (permalink)
bloodyfart Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: side control Posts: 2,044 Internets: 203	im not saying that he ignores the situation. he should urge her to call the police. but if she wont, he needs to protect himself from the misery that she will drag him into. some people are toxic. this could be one of those cases.
	<b>We're here, and we're queer, so get used to it</b>

06-24-2005, 03:08 PM	#18 (permalink)
bloodyfart Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: side control Posts: 2,044 Internets: 203	mustache is noxious.
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06-24-2005, 03:09 PM	#19 (permalink)
MAGICLIT Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: city of sin Posts: 2,753 Internets: 10	LOL, and repug?
	I am all in favor of a ruling class, especially since I rule.

06-24-2005, 03:22 PM	#21 (permalink)
bloodyfart Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: side control Posts: 2,044 Internets: 203	repug? obnoxious.
	<b>We're here, and we're queer, so get used to it</b>

06-24-2005, 05:06 PM	#22 (permalink)
DJ FC Guest Posts: n/a	Menny, Welcome to Nubblies! If you stay around a while, especially until Fall semester, you will be pleased with what Nubblies has to offer. As to your dilemma, I think It is obvious that most members think you should probably keep minimal contact with her father on this issue, and I agree. She has put you in a lose-lose scenario and probably the best course of action would be for her to contact the police should this become a reoccurring thing or most hopefully to take it with a grain of salt and continue on with life; not forgetting the incident, but also not holding a vicious grudge. Just my opinion.
DJ FC Guest Posts: n/a

06-24-2005, 06:09 PM	#23 (permalink)
bloodyfart Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: side control Posts: 2,044 Internets: 203	and you should post pics of her naked so we know what you are dealing with
	<b>We're here, and we're queer, so get used to it</b>

06-24-2005, 06:30 PM	#24 (permalink)
MAGICLIT Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: city of sin Posts: 2,753 Internets: 10	I love how Brently thinks.
	I am all in favor of a ruling class, especially since I rule.