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Constance · 10-23-2003, 07:15 AM

I have one friend at milan high, because well. Yea. She doesn't go online. Well whenever I go online, people that instant message me always want something. They never talk to me unless they want something. For example "Can I have that ftp and password to login to that thing again" or "Will you make graphics for my site please". No one wants to talk to me, but they sure want things. It really fucking hurts.

I feel so used. :\

Ugly Bastard · 10-23-2003, 11:24 AM

Constance-

It was not two days ago that I sent you a message being friendly, just to say hi.

A reply was not meritted from you however...

-Ugly Bastard

Orgazmo · 10-23-2003, 12:50 PM

Now Constance, if you want to be loved...you're going to have to help Ugly Bastard help you. How can you expect a friendly message when you don't even reply to Mr. Bastard's message in the first place? This sounds like a case of someone wanting to receive the spoils of a nice friendship...without really putting her fair share of the effort into it.

Now, in order to resolve this issue, it's going to take work on both ends. Ugly Bastard, I'd like you to send Constance another greeting when you see her online (if you're not too bitter about her lack of reply before). Now, if you're really as interested in genuine hello's as you claim, I suggest that you reciprocate the greeting to Mr. Bastard, letting him know that you not only care, but that you're appreciative of his efforts.

This should eventually snowball into an online friendship that could very well warrant a message of "hello" with each logging on to the instant messenger.

Ugly Bastard · 10-23-2003, 12:56 PM

We'll see....no promises will be made to anyone.

-Ugly Bastard

Orgazmo · 10-23-2003, 01:04 PM

That's to be expected, Ugly. You just got burnt when you tried to solidify a relationship with Constance. Being tentative to make a second effort is to be expected. Just work through this slowly, everything should be alright.

VOL · 10-23-2003, 01:49 PM

Constance, just stop doing favors for the people who seem to use you.

Fruitacious B · 10-23-2003, 04:24 PM

VOL, just stop.

Ugly Bastard · 10-23-2003, 05:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Fruitacious B:
VOL, just stop.

Yes

-Ugly Bastard

VOL · 10-23-2003, 06:05 PM

It was useful information.

Pliedes · 10-23-2003, 06:57 PM

Stop.

ProfessorNumber · 10-23-2003, 08:41 PM

I too sent a message to Constance. Hell, I don't even know her, and I went out of my way to be nice. What do I get in return? NO fucking answer.

Personally, I think what Constance meant to say, is that she is dissapointed that a few select people won't talk to her on a regular basis; but that she is way too cool to talk to anyone else.

Pliedes · 10-23-2003, 09:06 PM

Yes, she is to cool to talk to you.

Titan · 10-23-2003, 09:43 PM

Fortunately for me, I'm too cool to talk to her.

10-23-2003, 07:15 AM	#1 (permalink)
Constance Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Milan, Michigan Posts: 120 Internets: 10	I have one friend at milan high, because well. Yea. She doesn't go online. Well whenever I go online, people that instant message me always want something. They never talk to me unless they want something. For example "Can I have that ftp and password to login to that thing again" or "Will you make graphics for my site please". No one wants to talk to me, but they sure want things. It really fucking hurts. I feel so used. :\
	A mixtape would be a great analogy of my life.

10-23-2003, 01:49 PM	#6 (permalink)
VOL Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: there Posts: 2,305 Internets: -205	Constance, just stop doing favors for the people who seem to use you.
	~ductor ab grandis divinitus~ CDXXVII

10-23-2003, 04:24 PM	#7 (permalink)
Fruitacious B Bokononist Join Date: May 2003 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 2,595 Internets: 11801	VOL, just stop.
	"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." \|vonnegut

10-23-2003, 06:05 PM	#9 (permalink)
VOL Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: there Posts: 2,305 Internets: -205	It was useful information.
	~ductor ab grandis divinitus~ CDXXVII

10-23-2003, 08:41 PM	#11 (permalink)
ProfessorNumber Senior Member Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,215 Internets: 3373	I too sent a message to Constance. Hell, I don't even know her, and I went out of my way to be nice. What do I get in return? NO fucking answer. Personally, I think what Constance meant to say, is that she is dissapointed that a few select people won't talk to her on a regular basis; but that she is way too cool to talk to anyone else.
	Smoke a cigarette and lie some more -- These conversations kill.

10-23-2003, 11:24 AM	#2 (permalink)
Ugly Bastard Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 13,643 Internets: 247330	Constance- It was not two days ago that I sent you a message being friendly, just to say hi. A reply was not meritted from you however... -Ugly Bastard

10-23-2003, 12:50 PM	#3 (permalink)
Orgazmo COME ON YOU YANKS Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 15,732 Internets: 311447	Now Constance, if you want to be loved...you're going to have to help Ugly Bastard help you. How can you expect a friendly message when you don't even reply to Mr. Bastard's message in the first place? This sounds like a case of someone wanting to receive the spoils of a nice friendship...without really putting her fair share of the effort into it. Now, in order to resolve this issue, it's going to take work on both ends. Ugly Bastard, I'd like you to send Constance another greeting when you see her online (if you're not too bitter about her lack of reply before). Now, if you're really as interested in genuine hello's as you claim, I suggest that you reciprocate the greeting to Mr. Bastard, letting him know that you not only care, but that you're appreciative of his efforts. This should eventually snowball into an online friendship that could very well warrant a message of "hello" with each logging on to the instant messenger.

10-23-2003, 12:56 PM	#4 (permalink)
Ugly Bastard Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 13,643 Internets: 247330	We'll see....no promises will be made to anyone. -Ugly Bastard

10-23-2003, 01:04 PM	#5 (permalink)
Orgazmo COME ON YOU YANKS Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 15,732 Internets: 311447	That's to be expected, Ugly. You just got burnt when you tried to solidify a relationship with Constance. Being tentative to make a second effort is to be expected. Just work through this slowly, everything should be alright.

10-23-2003, 06:57 PM	#10 (permalink)
Pliedes Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Puget Sound Posts: 4,594 Internets: 1608	Stop.

10-23-2003, 09:06 PM	#12 (permalink)
Pliedes Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Puget Sound Posts: 4,594 Internets: 1608	Yes, she is to cool to talk to you.

10-23-2003, 09:43 PM	#13 (permalink)
Titan Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 3,698 Internets: 10	Fortunately for me, I'm too cool to talk to her.
	I do what the fuck I want.