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Nathan · 07-20-2005, 02:54 AM

First ill give you a brief background. I used to work at Farmer Jack as a bagger, not sure if they are in your guys area but its a grocery store. The one I was working at just closed in June, and about a week later a Country Market, another grocery store took the building over. I was given a job as a stocker at this new grocery store.

Anyways, for once theres actually a cute girl working at the same place as me. Shes a cashier. This new company is very big on management and such, and the result is the people in the front end almost never get a chance to talk to the other workers, such as myself. So that pretty much sucks, since I hardly ever get a chance to talk to this hot girl while im working.

Amongst us men, shes pretty much been the topic of this first week of work. Ill come in and say "so which lane is she working tonight" and the other guys know exactly what im talking about. Ive gathered shes 19 years old, as am I, goes to WCC (washtenaw community college), as do I, and just recently moved here. That all sounded pretty perfect initially, since most of the other guys that I work with are like 16 and 17, so I feel like I have an edge on them. However, just the other day we found out she lives with her boyfriend. That really sucks. Then the other night they were low on workers, and needed my help bagging for a little bit, so I actually got to talk to her for once. I found out also that shes not only living with her boyfriend, but its her boyfriends parents house. She moved here partly because of her boyfriend, but also because her parents gave her an 11:30 PM curfew and shes 19 years old, which really sucks.

SO yea.. anyways, pointless story, but its kind of been on my mind lately. Do you guys think im wasting my time trying to make something happen with this girl? She works evenings, as do I. Theres yet to be a night we haven't been working together. But she lives with her boyfriend, and her boyfriends parents. Sounds like she might be stuck in that situation for some time, or that is the situation she actually wants to be in, im not sure.

My cousin who is also 19 just got a job at the same store, as a part time cashier. Me and her are very close, and are planning on living together this fall. Would it be a bad idea to use my cousin to get me closer to this girl at work? My cousin could even play it off and act like shes not my cousin at all, and just ask this girl at work what she thinks of me. That might actually turn out to be a really bad idea later on if anything ever does happen. Or maybe even my cousin might become friends with her, and invite her over to our apartment to hang out, where I, just so happen to be living.

By now you guys probably are used to my drawn out random posts about bullshit in my life, but I like to think I can use you guys for suggestions and tips. Let me know what ya think.

Ugly Bastard · 07-20-2005, 03:04 AM

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Originally posted by Nathan:
Do you guys think im wasting my time trying to make something happen with this girl?

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Originally posted by Nathan:
She lives with her boyfriend

A few things:

A.) To answer your question, yes, you're wasting your time.
B.) I'm one to judge, so here it comes: If she's 19 years old - and "moved in with her boyfriends parents since her own parents imposed an 11:30 curfew on her", then she's probably white trash. Sorry, but it's true.
C.) This is an infatuation. There isn't anything terribly unhealthy about it - but realize that nothing is going to happen between you and this girl - and you're better off staying in the back daydreaming about her to help pass the time.

Cheers.

-Ugly Bastard

Saint DH · 07-20-2005, 03:06 AM

Kidnap her, rape her, and then dispose of her courpse.

You could really do that in any order depending on your sexual preference. Probably should make sure you kidnap her first, though.

07-20-2005, 03:34 AM

Ugly Bastard may have been too harsh in my oppinion:

On one hand, yes, you may not want to pursue a long term relationship with this skank hoe based solely on how you have described her so far.

On the other... you are young and shouldn't be worried about these things. Be reckless.

Ironic Mustache · 07-20-2005, 12:29 PM

Nathan you’re like a son to me, so I’m not going to lead you in the wrong direction. If anything were going to happen with this girl, she’d just cheat on you later anyway. If she does it to her boyfriend, she’ll do it to you. That being said, you could still just fuck her and leave it at that, but you work with her. Bad idea. I say leave it alone.

bloodyfart · 07-20-2005, 01:40 PM

"However, just the other day we found out she lives with her boyfriend. "

walk away from this one.

would you really want to be the "other man"? and like mustache says, if she leaves her bf for you, why wouldnt that same thing happen to you.

she is good jacking material, but thats it.

Nathan · 07-20-2005, 03:46 PM

Eh good points. Ill just leave it alone for now I suppose, im not very aggressive when it comes to girls anyways. But if things dont work out with her boyfriend, she'll know where to find me..

If anything its just kinda fun to have a cute girl at work, makes the day go by faster and keeps your mind off the fact that your job is horribly tedious and boring.

[ July 20, 2005, 01:48 PM: Message edited by: Nathan ]

Saint DH · 07-20-2005, 03:52 PM

Here's some real advice from me. Girls at work often time appear to be more attractive than they really are. It's really weird, but for some reason being stuck at work with them for a long time does something to your head. If you saw her outside of work she might not be quite as cute as you remember her being at work.

Nathan · 07-20-2005, 04:04 PM

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Originally posted by Dirty Harry:
Here's some real advice from me. Girls at work often time appear to be more attractive than they really are. It's really weird, but for some reason being stuck at work with them for a long time does something to your head. If you saw her outside of work she might not be quite as cute as you remember her being at work.

Thats exactly one of the first things I told my friends. They asked me if she was hot and I was like "well Id like to say she is, but maybe im just thinking shes hotter then she really is because I work with her." But I just started working with this chick, and I thought she was hot from day 1 so id say shes hot whether or not I work with her.

But I know exactly what your talking about. The grocery store that was here before that I worked with had absolutely no hot girls. However the few girls that were there, as time went on actually started to become attractive.

[ July 20, 2005, 02:06 PM: Message edited by: Nathan ]

Ugly Bastard · 07-20-2005, 04:11 PM

Bingo. Whilst working at Blockbuster - after about 8 or 9 months of working with no hot girls - I convinced myself that this one girl was worth pursuing. My buddy Dan was a few years older than me, and was kind enough to take me under his wing and inform me that the girl was balls-ugly and it was just my mind playing tricks on me after countless hours around the girl. Moral of the story: ...shit. There is no moral. Wasted post. Sorry.

-Ugly Bastard

bloodyfart · 07-20-2005, 04:32 PM

its called "work hot"

AcTivE · 07-20-2005, 06:34 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Dirty Harry:
Kidnap her, rape her, and then dispose of her courpse.

You could really do that in any order depending on your sexual preference. Probably should make sure you kidnap her first, though.

That is not very christian like dirty.

Ugly Bastard · 07-20-2005, 08:00 PM

Neither is your custom title.

-Ugly Bastard

theMerciless1 · 07-20-2005, 09:54 PM

all women are whores, you can nail her.

Nathan · 07-21-2005, 01:10 AM

Okay I dont quite get this girl. Today at work I talked to her a little bit. Apparently the plan is for her boyfriend to move out to his own apartment in august. I assumed she would be moving with him. However, she said they are no longer really together, so shes not going to be moving with him. But she is going to be still living in his parents house even though he wont be there.

I understand maybe over the 2 years they were off and on she maybe got close with his parents, but the situation just seems pretty bizarre. Im wondering if theres something more to it, like she has a kid or something crazy.

It sounds really white trashy the more I think about it, but I dont know, she just doesnt seem like that kind of girl. The fact that she is no longer with her boyfriend is really cool, but yet shes still living with him for another month, and then still living with his parents. Im not sure what to think of all this.

StabMaster Arson · 07-21-2005, 01:37 AM

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Originally posted by bloodyfart:
its called "work hot"

'round these parts it's "factory syndrome".

AcTivE · 07-21-2005, 07:09 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ugly Bastard:
Neither is your custom title.

-Ugly Bastard

Jesus is my drug.

farawayfromhere · 07-21-2005, 11:04 AM

The fact that she will be living with his parents despite the fact that he wont be there is really strange. I'd use it as a white trash sign. Although she may not look it, no doubt she's heading that direction. If you can't hack it out at home, then you do it on your own, or with one of your family members, or a close friend, not a boyfriend's parents. Find out what her plans are, how long does she plan on staying at her boyfriends parents house? And when she leaves is is she going on her own? or back home? or what?

Deadly Crescent Kick · 07-21-2005, 11:07 AM

you should have no problem getting down her pants. any girl who had an 11:30 curfew till 19 should be going dick crazy even if she doesn't outwardly show it.

but it sounds like she's carrying more baggage than a bellhop.

bang her. but i would be very warry of getting into a relationship w/ her.

Ironic Mustache · 07-21-2005, 12:18 PM

I've changed my mind too. If she's not with the boyfriend anymore, bang her out. Then forget about her. She needs some good rebound wang, and you may just be the michigander to hook her up. Don't lead her to believe that you'll be anything else though or you'll have to constantly worry about it at work.

Nathan · 07-27-2005, 12:44 AM

Despite what most of you have told me, I think if anything id be looking for a relationship. Ive never had a real relationship. The only one that even comes close was my freshman year of high school, and only lasted for 3 months. A girlfriend in my life is the only thing I really feel like I could use right now. Whether of not this is the right girl to pursue something like this with though is another story.

However, I am getting hints shes into me as well. Shes always looking at me when I walk past, like staring. Im not sure if thats good or bad. Shes asking me now when my breaks are, and when im working next, and ive talked to her a little bit more lately then I did initially. When she does talk to me I notice she uses my first name alot, im not sure if that really means anything or not.

I dont know, this is probably just a bunch of stupid stuff ive listed that could mean jack, but its nice to hope something might be able to happen down the road. My cousin that I was talking about earlier starts working tommorow, and this girl will be working as well, so hopefully they get along and maybe we can hang out in the near future with my cousin as a third wheel or something so its not so ackward for the girl at work, and so shes more willing.

Ill keep you guys updated, whether you want me to or not.

Carnivorous Flavor · 07-27-2005, 02:48 AM

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Originally posted by Nathan:
Ill keep you guys updated, whether you want me to or not.

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you fucking liar

THEINCREDIBLEdork · 07-27-2005, 04:42 AM

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Originally posted by Nathan:
My cousin that I was talking about earlier starts working tommorow, and this girl will be working as well, so hopefully they get along and maybe we can hang out in the near future with my cousin as a third wheel or something so its not so ackward for the girl at work, and so shes more willing.

good idea, then you'll get a good look at her outside of work. Whats your cousin look like, if you can get past the whole taboo...

Ironic Mustache · 07-27-2005, 12:12 PM

I hope GD doesn't see this thread.

Nathan · 07-27-2005, 02:13 PM

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Originally posted by THEINCREDIBLEdork:
good idea, then you'll get a good look at her outside of work. Whats your cousin look like, if you can get past the whole taboo...

Im not sure if your being sarcastic or not, or if the appearance of my cousin even matters. But shes 19, blonde, like 5'6 and skinny. Shes girly, but yet she can hang out with me and the guys no problem without it being ackward. Honestly shes one of the coolest girls I know. I mean her favorite music is heavy rock, but youd never guess it by her girly appearance.

And I just re-read your post and it sounds like your being serious and not sarcastic and now I see your point. She could very well act, dress, etc very differently outside of work, and to be honest I still hardly know her, so I hope in the near future we can hang out sometime.

07-20-2005, 03:34 AM	#4 (permalink)
DJ FC Guest Posts: n/a	Ugly Bastard may have been too harsh in my oppinion: On one hand, yes, you may not want to pursue a long term relationship with this skank hoe based solely on how you have described her so far. On the other... you are young and shouldn't be worried about these things. Be reckless.
DJ FC Guest Posts: n/a

07-20-2005, 12:29 PM	#5 (permalink)
Ironic Mustache G'd up from the feet up. Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Cali Posts: 7,146 Supreme Emperor of the Jiu Jitsu Shit Forum?: Yes Internets: 114735	Nathan you’re like a son to me, so I’m not going to lead you in the wrong direction. If anything were going to happen with this girl, she’d just cheat on you later anyway. If she does it to her boyfriend, she’ll do it to you. That being said, you could still just fuck her and leave it at that, but you work with her. Bad idea. I say leave it alone.
	Creeping around as I please nonchalantly like any other Supreme Emperor might.

07-20-2005, 01:40 PM	#6 (permalink)
bloodyfart Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: side control Posts: 2,044 Internets: 203	"However, just the other day we found out she lives with her boyfriend. " walk away from this one. would you really want to be the "other man"? and like mustache says, if she leaves her bf for you, why wouldnt that same thing happen to you. she is good jacking material, but thats it.
	<b>We're here, and we're queer, so get used to it</b>

07-20-2005, 04:32 PM	#11 (permalink)
bloodyfart Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: side control Posts: 2,044 Internets: 203	its called "work hot"
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07-20-2005, 09:54 PM	#14 (permalink)
theMerciless1 Senior Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: ming\'s palace Posts: 1,495 Internets: 412	all women are whores, you can nail her.
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07-20-2005, 02:54 AM	#1 (permalink)
Nathan Nasty Nate Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Michigan Posts: 627 Internets: 4881	First ill give you a brief background. I used to work at Farmer Jack as a bagger, not sure if they are in your guys area but its a grocery store. The one I was working at just closed in June, and about a week later a Country Market, another grocery store took the building over. I was given a job as a stocker at this new grocery store. Anyways, for once theres actually a cute girl working at the same place as me. Shes a cashier. This new company is very big on management and such, and the result is the people in the front end almost never get a chance to talk to the other workers, such as myself. So that pretty much sucks, since I hardly ever get a chance to talk to this hot girl while im working. Amongst us men, shes pretty much been the topic of this first week of work. Ill come in and say "so which lane is she working tonight" and the other guys know exactly what im talking about. Ive gathered shes 19 years old, as am I, goes to WCC (washtenaw community college), as do I, and just recently moved here. That all sounded pretty perfect initially, since most of the other guys that I work with are like 16 and 17, so I feel like I have an edge on them. However, just the other day we found out she lives with her boyfriend. That really sucks. Then the other night they were low on workers, and needed my help bagging for a little bit, so I actually got to talk to her for once. I found out also that shes not only living with her boyfriend, but its her boyfriends parents house. She moved here partly because of her boyfriend, but also because her parents gave her an 11:30 PM curfew and shes 19 years old, which really sucks. SO yea.. anyways, pointless story, but its kind of been on my mind lately. Do you guys think im wasting my time trying to make something happen with this girl? She works evenings, as do I. Theres yet to be a night we haven't been working together. But she lives with her boyfriend, and her boyfriends parents. Sounds like she might be stuck in that situation for some time, or that is the situation she actually wants to be in, im not sure. My cousin who is also 19 just got a job at the same store, as a part time cashier. Me and her are very close, and are planning on living together this fall. Would it be a bad idea to use my cousin to get me closer to this girl at work? My cousin could even play it off and act like shes not my cousin at all, and just ask this girl at work what she thinks of me. That might actually turn out to be a really bad idea later on if anything ever does happen. Or maybe even my cousin might become friends with her, and invite her over to our apartment to hang out, where I, just so happen to be living. By now you guys probably are used to my drawn out random posts about bullshit in my life, but I like to think I can use you guys for suggestions and tips. Let me know what ya think.

07-20-2005, 03:06 AM	#3 (permalink)
Saint DH Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 6,147 Internets: 284753	Kidnap her, rape her, and then dispose of her courpse. You could really do that in any order depending on your sexual preference. Probably should make sure you kidnap her first, though.

07-20-2005, 03:46 PM	#7 (permalink)
Nathan Nasty Nate Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Michigan Posts: 627 Internets: 4881	Eh good points. Ill just leave it alone for now I suppose, im not very aggressive when it comes to girls anyways. But if things dont work out with her boyfriend, she'll know where to find me.. If anything its just kinda fun to have a cute girl at work, makes the day go by faster and keeps your mind off the fact that your job is horribly tedious and boring. [ July 20, 2005, 01:48 PM: Message edited by: Nathan ]

07-20-2005, 03:52 PM	#8 (permalink)
Saint DH Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 6,147 Internets: 284753	Here's some real advice from me. Girls at work often time appear to be more attractive than they really are. It's really weird, but for some reason being stuck at work with them for a long time does something to your head. If you saw her outside of work she might not be quite as cute as you remember her being at work.

07-20-2005, 04:11 PM	#10 (permalink)
Ugly Bastard Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 13,643 Internets: 247330	Bingo. Whilst working at Blockbuster - after about 8 or 9 months of working with no hot girls - I convinced myself that this one girl was worth pursuing. My buddy Dan was a few years older than me, and was kind enough to take me under his wing and inform me that the girl was balls-ugly and it was just my mind playing tricks on me after countless hours around the girl. Moral of the story: ...shit. There is no moral. Wasted post. Sorry. -Ugly Bastard

07-20-2005, 08:00 PM	#13 (permalink)
Ugly Bastard Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 13,643 Internets: 247330	Neither is your custom title. -Ugly Bastard

07-21-2005, 01:10 AM	#15 (permalink)
Nathan Nasty Nate Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Michigan Posts: 627 Internets: 4881	Okay I dont quite get this girl. Today at work I talked to her a little bit. Apparently the plan is for her boyfriend to move out to his own apartment in august. I assumed she would be moving with him. However, she said they are no longer really together, so shes not going to be moving with him. But she is going to be still living in his parents house even though he wont be there. I understand maybe over the 2 years they were off and on she maybe got close with his parents, but the situation just seems pretty bizarre. Im wondering if theres something more to it, like she has a kid or something crazy. It sounds really white trashy the more I think about it, but I dont know, she just doesnt seem like that kind of girl. The fact that she is no longer with her boyfriend is really cool, but yet shes still living with him for another month, and then still living with his parents. Im not sure what to think of all this.

07-21-2005, 11:04 AM	#18 (permalink)
farawayfromhere Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2003 Location: a land far far away Posts: 449 Internets: 10	The fact that she will be living with his parents despite the fact that he wont be there is really strange. I'd use it as a white trash sign. Although she may not look it, no doubt she's heading that direction. If you can't hack it out at home, then you do it on your own, or with one of your family members, or a close friend, not a boyfriend's parents. Find out what her plans are, how long does she plan on staying at her boyfriends parents house? And when she leaves is is she going on her own? or back home? or what?
	"I always tell the girls never take it seriously. If you never take it seriously then you never get hurt. If you never get hurt then you always have fun, and if you ever get lonely you can just go to the record store and visit your friends."

07-21-2005, 11:07 AM	#19 (permalink)
Deadly Crescent Kick NJ, Toilet Bowl of USA Join Date: May 2005 Location: secret ninja lair Posts: 1,106 Internets: 10	you should have no problem getting down her pants. any girl who had an 11:30 curfew till 19 should be going dick crazy even if she doesn't outwardly show it. but it sounds like she's carrying more baggage than a bellhop. bang her. but i would be very warry of getting into a relationship w/ her.
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07-21-2005, 12:18 PM	#20 (permalink)
Ironic Mustache G'd up from the feet up. Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Cali Posts: 7,146 Supreme Emperor of the Jiu Jitsu Shit Forum?: Yes Internets: 114735	I've changed my mind too. If she's not with the boyfriend anymore, bang her out. Then forget about her. She needs some good rebound wang, and you may just be the michigander to hook her up. Don't lead her to believe that you'll be anything else though or you'll have to constantly worry about it at work.
	Creeping around as I please nonchalantly like any other Supreme Emperor might.

07-27-2005, 12:44 AM	#21 (permalink)
Nathan Nasty Nate Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Michigan Posts: 627 Internets: 4881	Despite what most of you have told me, I think if anything id be looking for a relationship. Ive never had a real relationship. The only one that even comes close was my freshman year of high school, and only lasted for 3 months. A girlfriend in my life is the only thing I really feel like I could use right now. Whether of not this is the right girl to pursue something like this with though is another story. However, I am getting hints shes into me as well. Shes always looking at me when I walk past, like staring. Im not sure if thats good or bad. Shes asking me now when my breaks are, and when im working next, and ive talked to her a little bit more lately then I did initially. When she does talk to me I notice she uses my first name alot, im not sure if that really means anything or not. I dont know, this is probably just a bunch of stupid stuff ive listed that could mean jack, but its nice to hope something might be able to happen down the road. My cousin that I was talking about earlier starts working tommorow, and this girl will be working as well, so hopefully they get along and maybe we can hang out in the near future with my cousin as a third wheel or something so its not so ackward for the girl at work, and so shes more willing. Ill keep you guys updated, whether you want me to or not.

07-27-2005, 12:12 PM	#24 (permalink)
Ironic Mustache G'd up from the feet up. Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Cali Posts: 7,146 Supreme Emperor of the Jiu Jitsu Shit Forum?: Yes Internets: 114735	I hope GD doesn't see this thread.
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