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Fruitacious B · 07-17-2003, 01:57 AM

Okay, why the fuck are guys supposed to make the first move? It's ass backwards, the girls should have to make the first move. For we all know that guys are always willing to get physical. The same is not true for girls. There's always that chance that you're moving too fast, or the timing is wrong, or that she doesn't like to make out or get physical. So if girls are so much on timing and all of that, then they know when they want it, so they should be the ones to make the first move, because the guy will always be ready. It's just a matter of the girls making up their fucking minds. They need to start pulling their own weight. They wanted equal rights, so here they are.

[ July 17, 2003, 12:04 AM: Message edited by: Fruitacious B ]

Trout Sniffer · 07-17-2003, 02:03 AM

I agree. I've thought about this issue many times and I don't know why guys have to make the first move every time when half the time the girl denies them. I guarantee you that if a girl made the first move, they would get denied less than 1 out of 20 times by the guy.

ttbabe23 · 07-17-2003, 02:11 AM

i mostly try to make the first move but sometimes the girl gets a lil shy cuz she thinks the guy will think shes a ho or something

BigDongedHoe · 07-17-2003, 02:14 AM

I've never been denied lol.....It's just natural for the guy to make the first move, that's the way it's supposed to be, some girls like a man who can take control.

Fruitacious B · 07-17-2003, 02:15 AM

I highly that very many guys would think that. Girls making the first move is a very, very exciting thing. I don't think any guy on here would turn some girl away if she made the first move.

Alpha · 07-17-2003, 02:22 AM

If she's ugly yes... If she's mildly attractive prob not.

Girls really do need to learn to make the first move when it comes to anything, including asking a guy out. Why do girls have such a big deal with that?

ttbabe23 · 07-17-2003, 02:29 AM

cuz of rejection boys, maybe not all of them are afraid of rejection but some of them are.

Fruitacious B · 07-17-2003, 02:31 AM

Rejection? Girls hold the sexual key. Rejection will commonly be pretty rare.

ttbabe23 · 07-17-2003, 02:33 AM

well true i like to make the first move except for the first kiss on the first date,the guy has to do that after that, i'll start basically anything

StDx · 07-17-2003, 02:51 AM

I always like to get the first kiss over with at the beginning of the date... that may be a little weird but it makes the rest of the date a lot less awkward.
I've heard people say that they don't kiss on the first date... why would you even go out with someone you wouldn't kiss?

women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place.

Rudy · 07-17-2003, 03:04 AM

what you need to do is just get trashed and then try to get some. You seem to give a flying fuck whether she turns you down or not.

Saint DH · 07-17-2003, 03:37 AM

Rudy has the best idea.

ttbabe23 · 07-17-2003, 03:37 AM

lol true true that can work

Ugly Bastard · 07-17-2003, 09:23 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by BigDongedHoe:
I've never been denied

I tend to disagree. You've told stories of yesteryear to people like me, about you, and girls, closets...stuff like that, you know...

-Ugly Bastard

[ July 17, 2003, 07:24 AM: Message edited by: Ugly Bastard ]

silver and cold · 07-17-2003, 03:22 PM

I will make the first move if I want to, but you never know if they would think your a whore, because I'm not a lil whore at all, and if a guy thinks taht, he will spread it around school.

getupkids · 07-18-2003, 04:27 AM

good call...

the way to go is just drop a few hints, if the guys don't pick up on those hints,then you probably shouldn't go for it.

bert · 07-18-2003, 06:25 PM

i think your a fucking pussy if you think the girl has to make the first move, if you dont have the balls to take rejection then you are probably gay. you shouldnt be pissed if she rejects you it just means she doesnt want to move that fast. im not tryin to stick up for the girls her and say that they shouldnt atleast attempt to make the first move im just saying if you are wanting to get a piece then you cant just sit back and wait for her to do it you might as well make the move yourself. in all fairness if you give her some she will most like give you something right back so dont be afraid to give cuase you will always receive soemthing back.
Rudy knows what he is talkin bout. who ever said alcohol isnt good for something.

Combat Chuck · 07-18-2003, 11:20 PM

No one said that bert. No one.

Anyway, I think that guys having to make the first move makes the game a little bit more interesting. The fact is, if you get rejected, give the girl 2 seconds to explain why, and if it's not good in your book, why waste your time?

Sad thing is, the girl will then think you're just out for the physical stuff. OF COURSE WE ARE! If we were out for the chatting, the laughing, and just that, I'd be your fucking friend, and just your friend!

Lay it out like this:

The reason why I chose to date you is because a) I think you're fucking hot, and I want to go farther with you than a friend would (and know that I don't mean sex....yet

), and b) I like you as a person, meaning, you don't annoy the shit out of me. I enjoy spending my time with you.

So if you get rejected, that means that there is more emphasis being put on the b side of the equation. Which means that you're losing at least something in the relationship.

Maybe you have morals, and if that just means not kissing after the first date, then fine. But if it means not kissing for three months....then what the hell is there a need for a label? Give the label to someone else who will fit it more appropriately,

....you know what's sad? I just reasoned out why I can't call my girlfriend my girlfriend in logical terms. And I'm not sure if I really was on subject....

[ July 18, 2003, 09:24 PM: Message edited by: Combat Chuck ]

BigDongedHoe · 07-19-2003, 01:22 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ugly Bastard:
</font><blockquote>quote:</font><hr />Originally posted by BigDongedHoe:
I've never been denied

I tend to disagree. You've told stories of yesteryear to people like me, about you, and girls, closets...stuff like that, you know...

-Ugly Bastard</font>[/quote]I was hoping people would catch the sarcasm in there.

Yes that was definitely a denial, maybe a miscommunication of sorts but her and I have worked out our differences and are friends again of course.

Saint DH · 07-19-2003, 03:33 AM

You know, there is a fail safe way of getting action. There's this little "drug" (drug is such a harsh word though) called roofies. Simply invite her over, make some popcorn, offer her a coke, slip it in her drink. Sure, she might not know what the fuck is going on, nor will she remember it. But what she doesn't know, won't hurt her

I am, of course, completely joking around, don't do this.

[ July 19, 2003, 03:13 AM: Message edited by: Dirty Harry ]

Combat Chuck · 07-19-2003, 04:24 PM

Or are you?

Schroeder · 08-02-2003, 02:31 AM

Come on guys, is rejection really that bad? I mean, I think all I have got is rejected for the last 8 years and I mean, come on, I came out fine, didn't I? DIDN'T I? (sobbing)

Orgazmo · 08-02-2003, 02:48 AM

Yes, Schroeder, you came out perfectly fine. Perfectly...fine.

07-17-2003, 01:57 AM	#1 (permalink)
Fruitacious B Bokononist Join Date: May 2003 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 2,595 Internets: 11801	Okay, why the fuck are guys supposed to make the first move? It's ass backwards, the girls should have to make the first move. For we all know that guys are always willing to get physical. The same is not true for girls. There's always that chance that you're moving too fast, or the timing is wrong, or that she doesn't like to make out or get physical. So if girls are so much on timing and all of that, then they know when they want it, so they should be the ones to make the first move, because the guy will always be ready. It's just a matter of the girls making up their fucking minds. They need to start pulling their own weight. They wanted equal rights, so here they are. [ July 17, 2003, 12:04 AM: Message edited by: Fruitacious B ]
	"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." \|vonnegut

07-17-2003, 02:03 AM	#2 (permalink)
Trout Sniffer Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Straight Outta Compton Posts: 1,003 Internets: 123	I agree. I've thought about this issue many times and I don't know why guys have to make the first move every time when half the time the girl denies them. I guarantee you that if a girl made the first move, they would get denied less than 1 out of 20 times by the guy.
	The Glyde don't sign no autographs

07-17-2003, 02:11 AM	#3 (permalink)
ttbabe23 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 147 Internets: 10	i mostly try to make the first move but sometimes the girl gets a lil shy cuz she thinks the guy will think shes a ho or something
	just do it ok...

07-17-2003, 02:14 AM	#4 (permalink)
BigDongedHoe Sex Kitten Milf fuuucck Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Denver, CO Posts: 3,704 Internets: 55974	I've never been denied lol.....It's just natural for the guy to make the first move, that's the way it's supposed to be, some girls like a man who can take control.
	There's life and then there is Cubs baseball, it's a chore to seperate the two.

07-17-2003, 02:15 AM	#5 (permalink)
Fruitacious B Bokononist Join Date: May 2003 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 2,595 Internets: 11801	I highly that very many guys would think that. Girls making the first move is a very, very exciting thing. I don't think any guy on here would turn some girl away if she made the first move.
	"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." \|vonnegut

07-17-2003, 02:22 AM	#6 (permalink)
Alpha Senior Member Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,003 Internets: 82	If she's ugly yes... If she's mildly attractive prob not. Girls really do need to learn to make the first move when it comes to anything, including asking a guy out. Why do girls have such a big deal with that?
	Gods are but men with immortal souls.

07-17-2003, 02:29 AM	#7 (permalink)
ttbabe23 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 147 Internets: 10	cuz of rejection boys, maybe not all of them are afraid of rejection but some of them are.
	just do it ok...

07-17-2003, 02:31 AM	#8 (permalink)
Fruitacious B Bokononist Join Date: May 2003 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 2,595 Internets: 11801	Rejection? Girls hold the sexual key. Rejection will commonly be pretty rare.
	"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." \|vonnegut

07-17-2003, 02:33 AM	#9 (permalink)
ttbabe23 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 147 Internets: 10	well true i like to make the first move except for the first kiss on the first date,the guy has to do that after that, i'll start basically anything
	just do it ok...

07-17-2003, 02:51 AM	#10 (permalink)
StDx Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: right behind you Posts: 931 Internets: 306	I always like to get the first kiss over with at the beginning of the date... that may be a little weird but it makes the rest of the date a lot less awkward. I've heard people say that they don't kiss on the first date... why would you even go out with someone you wouldn't kiss? women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place.

07-17-2003, 03:04 AM	#11 (permalink)
Rudy Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 187 Internets: 10	what you need to do is just get trashed and then try to get some. You seem to give a flying fuck whether she turns you down or not.

07-17-2003, 03:37 AM	#12 (permalink)
Saint DH Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 6,150 Internets: 284753	Rudy has the best idea.

07-17-2003, 03:37 AM	#13 (permalink)
ttbabe23 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Posts: 147 Internets: 10	lol true true that can work
	just do it ok...

07-17-2003, 03:22 PM	#15 (permalink)
silver and cold Ish... Join Date: May 2003 Location: this nowhere Posts: 1,680 Internets: 10	I will make the first move if I want to, but you never know if they would think your a whore, because I'm not a lil whore at all, and if a guy thinks taht, he will spread it around school.
	the killer in me is the killer in you.

07-18-2003, 04:27 AM	#16 (permalink)
getupkids Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: warsaw Posts: 174 Internets: 10	good call... the way to go is just drop a few hints, if the guys don't pick up on those hints,then you probably shouldn't go for it.
	according to the map, we've only got about 4 more inches to go

07-18-2003, 06:25 PM	#17 (permalink)
bert Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 314 Internets: 10	i think your a fucking pussy if you think the girl has to make the first move, if you dont have the balls to take rejection then you are probably gay. you shouldnt be pissed if she rejects you it just means she doesnt want to move that fast. im not tryin to stick up for the girls her and say that they shouldnt atleast attempt to make the first move im just saying if you are wanting to get a piece then you cant just sit back and wait for her to do it you might as well make the move yourself. in all fairness if you give her some she will most like give you something right back so dont be afraid to give cuase you will always receive soemthing back. Rudy knows what he is talkin bout. who ever said alcohol isnt good for something.

07-18-2003, 11:20 PM	#18 (permalink)
Combat Chuck Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 2,063 Internets: 10	No one said that bert. No one. Anyway, I think that guys having to make the first move makes the game a little bit more interesting. The fact is, if you get rejected, give the girl 2 seconds to explain why, and if it's not good in your book, why waste your time? Sad thing is, the girl will then think you're just out for the physical stuff. OF COURSE WE ARE! If we were out for the chatting, the laughing, and just that, I'd be your fucking friend, and just your friend! Lay it out like this: The reason why I chose to date you is because a) I think you're fucking hot, and I want to go farther with you than a friend would (and know that I don't mean sex....yet ), and b) I like you as a person, meaning, you don't annoy the shit out of me. I enjoy spending my time with you. So if you get rejected, that means that there is more emphasis being put on the b side of the equation. Which means that you're losing at least something in the relationship. Maybe you have morals, and if that just means not kissing after the first date, then fine. But if it means not kissing for three months....then what the hell is there a need for a label? Give the label to someone else who will fit it more appropriately, ....you know what's sad? I just reasoned out why I can't call my girlfriend my girlfriend in logical terms. And I'm not sure if I really was on subject.... [ July 18, 2003, 09:24 PM: Message edited by: Combat Chuck ]

07-19-2003, 03:33 AM	#20 (permalink)
Saint DH Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 6,150 Internets: 284753	You know, there is a fail safe way of getting action. There's this little "drug" (drug is such a harsh word though) called roofies. Simply invite her over, make some popcorn, offer her a coke, slip it in her drink. Sure, she might not know what the fuck is going on, nor will she remember it. But what she doesn't know, won't hurt her I am, of course, completely joking around, don't do this. [ July 19, 2003, 03:13 AM: Message edited by: Dirty Harry ]

07-19-2003, 04:24 PM	#21 (permalink)
Combat Chuck Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 2,063 Internets: 10	Or are you?

08-02-2003, 02:31 AM	#22 (permalink)
Schroeder Unwanted Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,543 Internets: -885	Come on guys, is rejection really that bad? I mean, I think all I have got is rejected for the last 8 years and I mean, come on, I came out fine, didn't I? DIDN'T I? (sobbing)

08-02-2003, 02:48 AM	#23 (permalink)
Orgazmo COME ON YOU YANKS Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 15,733 Internets: 311447	Yes, Schroeder, you came out perfectly fine. Perfectly...fine.