When I see a post like this I would normally react to it in a harsh or vulgar way. A way you would probably take offense to. But seeing as you are a WCHS student (i'm assuming) and that you could possibly be one of my friends I will tend to do the latter and respond to the best of my abilities.
I see people type stuff like this all the time. How there lost and looking for something but they don't know what, for some it may be a girlfriend, a purpose in life, a way to gain respect, or just a plain feeling of acceptance. In my 3 1/4 years in high school I went from the freshman would do anything just to be someones friend. To try and be popular and get the girl, you know the whole deal be fake and not yourself to obtain ones friendship. I've gone from being like that my freshman year, searching if you wish to call it that. To a Senior now who is still searching but now does it with the right motives. The best quote I have ever heard from somebody is "Fuck dude, it's high school." Although this quote may seem inappropriate for such a serious topic, I will explain how incredibly appropriate it actually is. High school is 4 years of life your supposed to enjoy and cherrish, however when you don't have a feeling of acceptance you can never really cherrish the moment. I don't how to get this out or put it into words but find a couple close friends and hang on to them. I myself now like having a close knit group of guys that I spend the night with and hang out with outside of school and that's it. I don't want the big crowd of 20 guys to like me that we all hang out every once in a while. High School is supposed to be fun, so what if you don't have the popularity or so what if you don't have all the friends you want. 5 Years from now when you possibly meet your wife is she gonna care about how popular you were in high school or how many friends you had?? I would tend to think these are things she won't pay attention to or care about. Talking about WCHS as this sametime the girls here are not normal girls. I have dated a girl from Wawasee and hung out with many girls from that school and others for that matter. The girls from the other schools don't care about your popularity or your friends or anything like that. They like to hang out and be with you for you, and it's the same from me to them. The halls of WCHS consists of stuck up BITCHES (yes BITCHES) who are only concerned about there image and what guy will make them look the best to be with. Although there are a few girls at our school who are not that way (i apologize if you took offense to the comment above) those are few and far between. I guess what I'm saying is that these 4 years (for you probably 3/4 left) are 4 years outta your life that are not gonna matter 5,10,15,20 years down the road. It will be sad to leave WCHS this year and go to college next year. Although all of you I won't see everyday and although we wont' be as good of friends as we used to be. We can always look back at Nubblies as a source of communication, a source of high schoolers being us.
Rocksteady maybe what I'm trying to tell you, is that we are 17 and 18 year old KIDS who are just trying to have some fun, layback have fun and stop searching because "fuck dude, it's high school." There will be bigger and better things in the future this i promise you sir. As far as acceptance goes, you are accepted into a family, yes I call it a family, a family of Nubblies.Com!
To each and all this is a different side of BigDongedHoe I know, but fuck we all have something inside of us and all of us are people, just guys in high school, college, and some in nothing at all having a good time.
"Don't take life to seriously, you'll never get out alive"
-Van Wilder
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