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04-24-2003, 12:58 PM

I must say. After previous experiences and whatnot, I had become a big skeptic about the whole thing, it just seemed like having a girlfriend was a waste of time or something. I thought I wasn't really going to be getting involved in anything before college...

Let me just say, as far as girlfriends go, right now, I'm a fan.

I know this isn't much of a thread, but I'm interested on other member's outlooks on this topic.

So, girlfriends, worth the time/effort? Or should one just be a player, like victim? Or is gay the way? (no. it's not, by the way.) Just lay your thoughts out...

Titan · 04-24-2003, 01:13 PM

a.) You're only a fan of girlfriends if you have a good one. Congratulations pliedes, hopefully it stays as + as it is now for you.

2.) Girlfriends are worth the time and effort, if you're with the right one (we can take UB's last suitress as an example of not that) or if she's just a really good match for you, and you're not just imagining her to be something she's not - which we all do frequently.

d.) If you for some reason can't manage to bag a girl that is, or seemingly is close to, right for you, then yes, be a player. Once you get stuck in a crappy relationship, you'll realize what you were missing out on before, and be wishing you were free like Mumia Abu-Jamal.

Oh yeah, by the by, this message has been brought to you by the authority on love and relationships, the man who's been through it all and has a million ridiculous tidbits of advice that get the blood in your brain flowing, Dr. [instert real name here]

[This message has been edited by Titan (edited April 24, 2003).]

Ugly Bastard · 04-24-2003, 01:57 PM

Girlfriends, blow ass. Here's why:

1.) They bitch
2.) They moan
3.) They're needy
4.) You have to buy them shit
5.) They take time out of your life that you'd rather be spending with friends.

Now, that said; some girlfriends can be cool, they just have to know their limitations. I have found through observation that the girls who can "just be one of the guys" are the ones that everyone seems to like (ie: Rah). They can be great as long as they are your friend ahead of the fact that they are your girlfriend.

If you have a girlfriend who none of your friends like, she is ultimately destructive.

The credo I now live by is something Titan once said to me reguarding girlfriends: Don't try to get a girlfriend, or feel like you always have to have one. If a girl comes into your life, without you having to go out of the way to find her, then maybe she's the one.

In conclusion: I say live your life how you want to live it, and if a lady comes along who can fit herself into your life without changing it, then let her do so. And never let your penis run your life, it sucks...

-Ugly Bastard

Titan · 04-24-2003, 01:59 PM

Amen.

<BLOCKQUOTE>quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Ugly Bastard:
They can be great as long as they are your friend ahead of the fact that they are your girlfriend.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

And you bring up another very valid and true point there.

victim · 04-24-2003, 08:04 PM

<BLOCKQUOTE>quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by pliedes:
Or should one just be a player, like victim?<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Ha ha ha... but seriously,

Someone make the hurting stop...

[This message has been edited by victim (edited April 24, 2003).]

Rufus · 04-24-2003, 11:58 PM

I think girlfriends are good. The point of dating is the find the right one. Usually the first girl you meet isn't going to be "The One". It is good to browse a bit.
I'm in a really good relationship and I really enjoy it. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half.
UB did mention reasons for not having a girlfriend and the money thing may be true at first but after being together for awhile the guy doesn't pay for everything. My special someone likes to take me out once and awhile, and we also find cheaper things to do. So all in all girfriends are necessary if you want to settle down and aren't gay.

04-25-2003, 12:28 AM

Yeah, I pay for shit because I'm nice. Of course, most of the time "paying" for shit involved downloading movies and watching them in my bedroom...

Saint DH · 04-26-2003, 02:48 PM

I pay for shit most of the time, too, b/c I'm nice. Other times though, I'll make her pay, if she refuses, I kick her out of the car and make her walk home.

Niger Angelus · 04-26-2003, 02:55 PM

I usaully bust out the cash. But I have problem with it, I mean, isnt that what I am supposed to do?
She does try to pay sometimes, but I dont know, it just seems gay to have a girl pay for your shit. I mean, if she wants to pay, she can pay in other ways.

goatfucker · 04-26-2003, 10:46 PM

Fuck that shit my girlfriends always pay for shit i'm a broke ass mother fucker she can pay for the movie and give me head during it i don't give a faggot fuck

Saint DH · 04-27-2003, 03:45 AM

You don't even have a g/f you worthless piece of shit.

Niger Angelus · 04-27-2003, 03:23 PM

- goatfucker
You cunt ass bitch, go fuck off testicle licking motherfucker.

[This message has been edited by Niger Angelus (edited April 27, 2003).]

Combat Chuck · 04-28-2003, 06:13 PM

Eh, girlfriends are mighty fun to have when you're in something that feels right.

But then that something that feels so right ends up dumping your ass for shitty reasons, and then doesn't give a flying fuck about you....yeah, that's when the whole ideas of having a girlfriend sucks.

My advice, especially to pliedes is, no matter how great, or how long you believe you are going to last, don't ever take anything for granted. You may not have all the time in the world to spend with this significant other, so don't take it for granted. It's what I did, and I'm still a little sore from it.

Anyway, significant others can be one of the greatest things in the world. Someone to make you feel like you're important all the time, no matter what you've done, what mood you're in, what mistakes you made recently, how stupid that joke was, etc. The person who you know truly cares about you, who is there for encouragement, and constructive criticsm.

Someone who makes sunsets even better, moonlit drives in the country priceless, just lying in the dark feeling their body against yours a regular activity, making the subtle movements of eyes and little smiles imprinted in your mind forever....that's what girlfriends, and hopefully, wives, so great.

Sharing your time with someone who really doesn't mind sharing theirs with you.....it really is worth it folks.

Right now, I'm in one of the biggest messes that I've ever had pertaining to girls and such, and I ask myself if all the time and exertion is worth it.....alot of the time, I'm not sure. Hopefully I won't crash and burn.

But remember folks, every crash and burn makes the next takeoff more professional. If you know what I mean.

I'm being way too emo. I'm jettin.

Titan · 04-28-2003, 06:24 PM

No you had it right Chuck.
Respect.

One thing we all do far too often is to see someone who's good, and then imprint perfection onto them through our eyes. Be aware of your mate's faults and annoyances from the begining, if you don't it'll just hurt a lot more later on.

[This message has been edited by Titan (edited April 28, 2003).]

goatfucker · 04-28-2003, 11:05 PM

I fucking deepthroat my girlfriend every time i maker her give me head cuz my fucking cock is so long

Combat Chuck · 04-29-2003, 12:54 AM

I have never wanted to maim and throw acid on another person as much as I do right now in all of my life.

And truer words could never have been spoken by Titan. I think maybe we should be relationship counselors. We'll gauge how well your relationship is doing by how hot your girlfriend is compared to Titan's wife. If she's not as good, sorry....

Geez, there goes everyone's lovin....

Titan · 04-29-2003, 01:04 AM

<BLOCKQUOTE>quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Combat Chuck:
We'll gauge how well your relationship is doing by how hot your girlfriend is compared to Titan's wife.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Chuck, I hope someday you realize that that is a ridiculous way to give counseling and it is completely irrelevant.

'Know what else is completely irrelevant? All of the naked pictures of my wife hanging on my wall here... oh wait... I don't have any. Oh well, all the more irrelevant.

Niger Angelus · 04-29-2003, 10:16 PM

Ok, arguments. That is something that I cant stand, and with girlfriends, as I am finding out now, happen too often. You dont have to even do anything, they can hear something, and go off on you, o lordy what have I done.

Combat Chuck · 04-30-2003, 09:51 AM

I don't know Niger...what have you done?

And Titan....you know what is completely relevant? The fact that you don't have nude pictures of your wife, and I have copies of at least 5.

Titan · 04-30-2003, 02:54 PM

rel·e·vant adj.
Related to the matter being considered.

false adj.
Contrary to fact or truth.

Stop confusing the two.
And while you're at it, you can go ahead and stop being

cock·slutt·ish adj.
The act of being a cockslutt; being slutty with the cock.

[This message has been edited by Titan (edited April 30, 2003).]

Niger Angelus · 04-30-2003, 05:22 PM

I havent done a thing Chuckles, not a thing.

Combat Chuck · 05-02-2003, 07:00 PM

Well then, I feel for ya. It truly is a bitch when you're stuck in a sitcheation like that. Eh, things get better with time. It sucks, but that philosophy has always rung extremely true for me.

cyrus104 · 05-06-2003, 03:02 PM

That is a bitch, well here is my dumbass story. I have been friends with a girl for afew years. We hung out and talked. She has been haveing a bf on and off during the whole time. I mean we never did anything. Well I don't know she started to say that she cared about me and that she wanted to hang out more. I though it was an ok Idea. Like middle of the winter we were talking about prom and I was just throwing my 2 cents into the conversation. I told her that I would not take a girl to prom if she had a bf, morality. She could not go becuase she is a sophmore. Well anyway afew weeks ago we started to hang out more and more, then she broke up with her bf. It made me happy. She has taken him to school ever since she got her license, and she said that she was going to keep takin him just to be nice. I was ok with that, I really could not say anything becuase we were just friends. She started to write me notes like almost every day and crap. The day after they broke up they were walking from the parking lot to the school and I was talking to her brother and she and her ex had there arms around each other. Even for afew day later they were supposed to be brokeup but he still came over and cuddled and watched movie with her. I was kinda confused and I thought to my self and talked to some friends, I kinda figured it out that along time ago I told here about the prom and haveing a bf thing, so I kinda figured that she just wanted to go to prom with me and then forget about me. I talked to people who care about her and love her, ok it might have been family members but they kinda gave me some advice and they thought the same as I did. So I confront her on the net one night when we were talking and she was like, "I can not believe that you thought that I would do that." I felt bad. Lets just say that it might have all been for the best what ever does not kill you makes you stronger. Plus I found someone just recently that I like alot. So maybe it was for the best.

------------------
Mess with the Best, Die like the Rest

michelle82 · 06-03-2003, 04:51 AM

Well being a girl I'm gonna hafta go pro girlfriend. We do bitch, we do spend your money and we get all pissed off over stupid shit but who else are you going to make out with and rant and rave to when you get all pissed off, girls are used to that kinda thing so guys find it easier to talk to us. Also, the prom girl was sooo using you...TRUST me I've done it to sooo many guys. If she was with her bf then she isn't over him so get over her. Hate to break it to ya girls lie.

Ugly Bastard · 06-03-2003, 11:29 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Michelle:
Hate to break it to ya girls lie.

Like we haven't already figured that shit out.

-Ugly Bastard

04-24-2003, 12:58 PM	#1 (permalink)
pliedes Guest Posts: n/a	I must say. After previous experiences and whatnot, I had become a big skeptic about the whole thing, it just seemed like having a girlfriend was a waste of time or something. I thought I wasn't really going to be getting involved in anything before college... Let me just say, as far as girlfriends go, right now, I'm a fan. I know this isn't much of a thread, but I'm interested on other member's outlooks on this topic. So, girlfriends, worth the time/effort? Or should one just be a player, like victim? Or is gay the way? (no. it's not, by the way.) Just lay your thoughts out...
pliedes Guest Posts: n/a

04-25-2003, 12:28 AM	#7 (permalink)
Orgazmo Guest Posts: n/a	Yeah, I pay for shit because I'm nice. Of course, most of the time "paying" for shit involved downloading movies and watching them in my bedroom...
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04-24-2003, 01:13 PM	#2 (permalink)
Titan Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 3,698 Internets: 10	a.) You're only a fan of girlfriends if you have a good one. Congratulations pliedes, hopefully it stays as + as it is now for you. 2.) Girlfriends are worth the time and effort, if you're with the right one (we can take UB's last suitress as an example of not that) or if she's just a really good match for you, and you're not just imagining her to be something she's not - which we all do frequently. d.) If you for some reason can't manage to bag a girl that is, or seemingly is close to, right for you, then yes, be a player. Once you get stuck in a crappy relationship, you'll realize what you were missing out on before, and be wishing you were free like Mumia Abu-Jamal. Oh yeah, by the by, this message has been brought to you by the authority on love and relationships, the man who's been through it all and has a million ridiculous tidbits of advice that get the blood in your brain flowing, Dr. [instert real name here] [This message has been edited by Titan (edited April 24, 2003).]

04-24-2003, 01:57 PM	#3 (permalink)
Ugly Bastard Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 13,643 Internets: 247330	Girlfriends, blow ass. Here's why: 1.) They bitch 2.) They moan 3.) They're needy 4.) You have to buy them shit 5.) They take time out of your life that you'd rather be spending with friends. Now, that said; some girlfriends can be cool, they just have to know their limitations. I have found through observation that the girls who can "just be one of the guys" are the ones that everyone seems to like (ie: Rah). They can be great as long as they are your friend ahead of the fact that they are your girlfriend. If you have a girlfriend who none of your friends like, she is ultimately destructive. The credo I now live by is something Titan once said to me reguarding girlfriends: Don't try to get a girlfriend, or feel like you always have to have one. If a girl comes into your life, without you having to go out of the way to find her, then maybe she's the one. In conclusion: I say live your life how you want to live it, and if a lady comes along who can fit herself into your life without changing it, then let her do so. And never let your penis run your life, it sucks... -Ugly Bastard

04-24-2003, 01:59 PM	#4 (permalink)
Titan Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 3,698 Internets: 10	Amen. <BLOCKQUOTE>quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Ugly Bastard: They can be great as long as they are your friend ahead of the fact that they are your girlfriend.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE> And you bring up another very valid and true point there.

04-24-2003, 08:04 PM	#5 (permalink)
victim Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 985 Internets: 10	<BLOCKQUOTE>quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by pliedes: Or should one just be a player, like victim?<HR></BLOCKQUOTE> Ha ha ha... but seriously, Someone make the hurting stop... [This message has been edited by victim (edited April 24, 2003).]

04-24-2003, 11:58 PM	#6 (permalink)
Rufus Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: warsaw,in,usa Posts: 115 Internets: 10	I think girlfriends are good. The point of dating is the find the right one. Usually the first girl you meet isn't going to be "The One". It is good to browse a bit. I'm in a really good relationship and I really enjoy it. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. UB did mention reasons for not having a girlfriend and the money thing may be true at first but after being together for awhile the guy doesn't pay for everything. My special someone likes to take me out once and awhile, and we also find cheaper things to do. So all in all girfriends are necessary if you want to settle down and aren't gay.

04-26-2003, 02:48 PM	#8 (permalink)
Saint DH Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 6,150 Internets: 284753	I pay for shit most of the time, too, b/c I'm nice. Other times though, I'll make her pay, if she refuses, I kick her out of the car and make her walk home.

04-26-2003, 02:55 PM	#9 (permalink)
Niger Angelus We still believe. Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 4,697 Internets: 216	I usaully bust out the cash. But I have problem with it, I mean, isnt that what I am supposed to do? She does try to pay sometimes, but I dont know, it just seems gay to have a girl pay for your shit. I mean, if she wants to pay, she can pay in other ways.

04-26-2003, 10:46 PM	#10 (permalink)
goatfucker Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Warsaw, IN Posts: 56 Internets: 10	Fuck that shit my girlfriends always pay for shit i'm a broke ass mother fucker she can pay for the movie and give me head during it i don't give a faggot fuck

04-27-2003, 03:45 AM	#11 (permalink)
Saint DH Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Posts: 6,150 Internets: 284753	You don't even have a g/f you worthless piece of shit.

04-27-2003, 03:23 PM	#12 (permalink)
Niger Angelus We still believe. Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 4,697 Internets: 216	- goatfucker You cunt ass bitch, go fuck off testicle licking motherfucker. [This message has been edited by Niger Angelus (edited April 27, 2003).]

04-28-2003, 06:13 PM	#13 (permalink)
Combat Chuck Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 2,063 Internets: 10	Eh, girlfriends are mighty fun to have when you're in something that feels right. But then that something that feels so right ends up dumping your ass for shitty reasons, and then doesn't give a flying fuck about you....yeah, that's when the whole ideas of having a girlfriend sucks. My advice, especially to pliedes is, no matter how great, or how long you believe you are going to last, don't ever take anything for granted. You may not have all the time in the world to spend with this significant other, so don't take it for granted. It's what I did, and I'm still a little sore from it. Anyway, significant others can be one of the greatest things in the world. Someone to make you feel like you're important all the time, no matter what you've done, what mood you're in, what mistakes you made recently, how stupid that joke was, etc. The person who you know truly cares about you, who is there for encouragement, and constructive criticsm. Someone who makes sunsets even better, moonlit drives in the country priceless, just lying in the dark feeling their body against yours a regular activity, making the subtle movements of eyes and little smiles imprinted in your mind forever....that's what girlfriends, and hopefully, wives, so great. Sharing your time with someone who really doesn't mind sharing theirs with you.....it really is worth it folks. Right now, I'm in one of the biggest messes that I've ever had pertaining to girls and such, and I ask myself if all the time and exertion is worth it.....alot of the time, I'm not sure. Hopefully I won't crash and burn. But remember folks, every crash and burn makes the next takeoff more professional. If you know what I mean. I'm being way too emo. I'm jettin.

04-28-2003, 06:24 PM	#14 (permalink)
Titan Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 3,698 Internets: 10	No you had it right Chuck. Respect. One thing we all do far too often is to see someone who's good, and then imprint perfection onto them through our eyes. Be aware of your mate's faults and annoyances from the begining, if you don't it'll just hurt a lot more later on. [This message has been edited by Titan (edited April 28, 2003).]

04-28-2003, 11:05 PM	#15 (permalink)
goatfucker Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Location: Warsaw, IN Posts: 56 Internets: 10	I fucking deepthroat my girlfriend every time i maker her give me head cuz my fucking cock is so long

04-29-2003, 12:54 AM	#16 (permalink)
Combat Chuck Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 2,063 Internets: 10	I have never wanted to maim and throw acid on another person as much as I do right now in all of my life. And truer words could never have been spoken by Titan. I think maybe we should be relationship counselors. We'll gauge how well your relationship is doing by how hot your girlfriend is compared to Titan's wife. If she's not as good, sorry.... Geez, there goes everyone's lovin....

04-29-2003, 01:04 AM	#17 (permalink)
Titan Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 3,698 Internets: 10	<BLOCKQUOTE>quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Combat Chuck: We'll gauge how well your relationship is doing by how hot your girlfriend is compared to Titan's wife.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE> Chuck, I hope someday you realize that that is a ridiculous way to give counseling and it is completely irrelevant. 'Know what else is completely irrelevant? All of the naked pictures of my wife hanging on my wall here... oh wait... I don't have any. Oh well, all the more irrelevant.

04-29-2003, 10:16 PM	#18 (permalink)
Niger Angelus We still believe. Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 4,697 Internets: 216	Ok, arguments. That is something that I cant stand, and with girlfriends, as I am finding out now, happen too often. You dont have to even do anything, they can hear something, and go off on you, o lordy what have I done.

04-30-2003, 09:51 AM	#19 (permalink)
Combat Chuck Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 2,063 Internets: 10	I don't know Niger...what have you done? And Titan....you know what is completely relevant? The fact that you don't have nude pictures of your wife, and I have copies of at least 5.

04-30-2003, 02:54 PM	#20 (permalink)
Titan Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 3,698 Internets: 10	rel·e·vant adj. Related to the matter being considered. false adj. Contrary to fact or truth. Stop confusing the two. And while you're at it, you can go ahead and stop being cock·slutt·ish adj. The act of being a cockslutt; being slutty with the cock. [This message has been edited by Titan (edited April 30, 2003).]

04-30-2003, 05:22 PM	#21 (permalink)
Niger Angelus We still believe. Join Date: Oct 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 4,697 Internets: 216	I havent done a thing Chuckles, not a thing.

05-02-2003, 07:00 PM	#22 (permalink)
Combat Chuck Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 2,063 Internets: 10	Well then, I feel for ya. It truly is a bitch when you're stuck in a sitcheation like that. Eh, things get better with time. It sucks, but that philosophy has always rung extremely true for me.

05-06-2003, 03:02 PM	#23 (permalink)
cyrus104 Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22 Internets: 10	That is a bitch, well here is my dumbass story. I have been friends with a girl for afew years. We hung out and talked. She has been haveing a bf on and off during the whole time. I mean we never did anything. Well I don't know she started to say that she cared about me and that she wanted to hang out more. I though it was an ok Idea. Like middle of the winter we were talking about prom and I was just throwing my 2 cents into the conversation. I told her that I would not take a girl to prom if she had a bf, morality. She could not go becuase she is a sophmore. Well anyway afew weeks ago we started to hang out more and more, then she broke up with her bf. It made me happy. She has taken him to school ever since she got her license, and she said that she was going to keep takin him just to be nice. I was ok with that, I really could not say anything becuase we were just friends. She started to write me notes like almost every day and crap. The day after they broke up they were walking from the parking lot to the school and I was talking to her brother and she and her ex had there arms around each other. Even for afew day later they were supposed to be brokeup but he still came over and cuddled and watched movie with her. I was kinda confused and I thought to my self and talked to some friends, I kinda figured it out that along time ago I told here about the prom and haveing a bf thing, so I kinda figured that she just wanted to go to prom with me and then forget about me. I talked to people who care about her and love her, ok it might have been family members but they kinda gave me some advice and they thought the same as I did. So I confront her on the net one night when we were talking and she was like, "I can not believe that you thought that I would do that." I felt bad. Lets just say that it might have all been for the best what ever does not kill you makes you stronger. Plus I found someone just recently that I like alot. So maybe it was for the best. ------------------ Mess with the Best, Die like the Rest

06-03-2003, 04:51 AM	#24 (permalink)
michelle82 Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2003 Location: Richmond Indiana Posts: 16 Internets: 10	Well being a girl I'm gonna hafta go pro girlfriend. We do bitch, we do spend your money and we get all pissed off over stupid shit but who else are you going to make out with and rant and rave to when you get all pissed off, girls are used to that kinda thing so guys find it easier to talk to us. Also, the prom girl was sooo using you...TRUST me I've done it to sooo many guys. If she was with her bf then she isn't over him so get over her. Hate to break it to ya girls lie.