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f3lix · 01-13-2008, 04:03 AM

Based on seeing two of my friends get married through E-harmony and two more seemingly in very happy relationships, I decided to give it a shot. After filling out the survey, I was floored at how spot on my personality profile was. I instantly got excited for the prospect that this site could match me up with a potential girl. I looked at my matches, which was only 7 in all of Las Vegas and surrounding areas up to 60 miles. This didn't really surprise me, because I know how I am and am glad I didn't have 100 or so options to filter through. The first profile I read seemed too perfect for me. I read through others and decided to give the whole thing a shot. I'll let you know how/if anything comes to fruition.

Mr. Blonde · 01-13-2008, 04:32 AM

please do. i've always been curious about that shit.

Ugly Bastard · 01-13-2008, 12:37 PM

I subscribed to e-Harmony a year or two ago. I speculate there are two reasons why I received just one (or maybe it was two) matches even though I live in an area with over 5 million people within 50 miles of me: (a) I was young, 22, or maybe even 21... so most girls probably filter that they want guys older than that and (b) I indicated in my quiz that I'm not religious at all. eHarmony was founded by some Christian guy. Some people speculate that they kind of fuck you over if you indicate to be an athiest upon signing up.

Orgazmo · 01-13-2008, 12:51 PM

I like this thread. F3lix, I think a picture and/or summary of your current target would make this thread gold. Post this shit before contact and keep us updated as contact evolves. When that one fizzles, move on to the next.

Wash, rinse, repeat.

That's a recipe for success.

f3lix · 01-13-2008, 02:54 PM

I, too, have felt I might be creating a bias when I claim no religious or spiritual beliefs. I am thinking about changing it to spiritual with no specific religion for that purpose. Although that would also defeat the purpose of finding that "one in a million" idea.

Update: I elected to proceed with all seven matches to the next step (there are maybe ten steps.) The first one is asking 5 questions, which are picked among 57 options and the answers are 4 multiple choice options. Two of the seven "closed" the relationship stating they are pursuing another relationship. The other 5 have not responded. I also got 7 more options, this time with 6 of them being from neighboring states. I'll be really flexible here, but dating somebody 6 hours away isn't really what I'm looking for.

Heaven Can Wait · 01-13-2008, 02:56 PM

i use www.plentyoffish.com
signed up 2 days ago, fucked a 40 year old last night.
it was weird shit, i didnt know her name.

f3lix · 01-13-2008, 03:02 PM

I made some changes. I changed the allowance for possible matches to see my photo. Now they must start communicating with me to see them. I had uploaded a few (all are most common on my facebook profile, myspace, etc.) I also added on of me in a santa suit, figuring that would indicate that I was willing to "do it for the kids." Eharmony did not approve of the photo and won't allow me to use it. I'm not sure why...

I also changed from no religion or spritual beliefs to just plan spiritual with no specific religion.

THEINCREDIBLEdork · 01-13-2008, 04:22 PM

Does e-harmoney support alternative relationships? I need dick.

f3lix · 01-13-2008, 04:58 PM

Only hetero. Sorry Shaw.

f3lix · 01-13-2008, 05:21 PM

I got my first response. A 21 year-old from Anaheim answered my questions at a very likable level. She sent me questions in return. If things progress, I'll share more detail.

THEINCREDIBLEdork · 01-13-2008, 05:38 PM

cmon, pics man. need some fresh spank bank material

f3lix · 01-13-2008, 06:14 PM

They disabled the ole right-click/save, plus its against terms and agreements. chill the fuck out.

THEINCREDIBLEdork · 01-13-2008, 06:21 PM

print screen

gogogogogogogoggogogogo!

Orgazmo · 01-13-2008, 08:32 PM

Ya, we definitely need pics. Screenshot it please. Thanks.

f3lix · 01-13-2008, 09:07 PM

We're moving into personal questions.

a 2nd girl has no opened communication. She's from Bakersfield, CA (which is where a fellow poker friend moved from Indiana to live) We'll see how it all goes, but I'm def. liking the first one.

BigDongedHoe · 01-14-2008, 02:30 AM

move to have Gaz' lock thread without pictures provided by f3lix:

yes - 1
no - 0

f3lix · 01-14-2008, 02:55 AM

Fucking babies.

Things with Anaheim-girl are working out very well. She is quick to reply and we've shared our "must haves" and "can't stands." Once those were sent, we both decided to pursue further and sent personal questions, with the option of using 3 more from the original list of 57. I used two personal and one standard. I liked her responses. These were in essay form and not multiple choice. She asked me three questions and I responded to those. I am now waiting for her to read them and decided if we'll use "open communication." I'm not really sure what that means yet.

The first set of profiles that I read had one girl of whom I instantly started up with the questions. Despite her being Mexican (never dated one before) I saw a lot of potential. She shut me down before it even started... That really surprised me because I felt that we both had what the other is looking for.

I now have 8 girls left on the match list, down from 14.

THEINCREDIBLEdork · 01-14-2008, 07:38 AM

which haircut are you using in your pictures. the maestro?

2-0

f3lix · 01-14-2008, 11:19 AM

I used the maestro as the main pic and included 3 others.

Orgazmo · 01-14-2008, 02:10 PM

f3lix, do you realize how much better this thread would be with a picture? Instead of "the girl from anaheim," we're looking at the chick you're describing. It turns a solid B thread into an A+ instantly.

Mr. Blonde · 01-14-2008, 02:57 PM

yeah i must admit not having pictures is pretty ghey

Ironic Mustache · 01-14-2008, 03:26 PM

I think that's overdoing it a bit. Pics of the chicks would turn this B- thread into barely an A- thread (which is still good) but let's be honest, A+ is out of the question unless the chicks are naked.

f3lix · 01-14-2008, 08:31 PM

THEINCREDIBLEdork · 01-14-2008, 08:47 PM

id hit it

i've been waiting to say that for so long

Orgazmo · 01-14-2008, 10:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ironic Mustache

I think that's overdoing it a bit. Pics of the chicks would turn this B- thread into barely an A- thread (which is still good) but let's be honest, A+ is out of the question unless the chicks are naked.

I said what was needed to get the pictures. It's a great thread either way.

01-13-2008, 04:03 AM	#1 (permalink)
f3lix Gangnam Style Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: DH's Massage Parlor Posts: 6,383 Internets: 213510	I just joined E-harmony Based on seeing two of my friends get married through E-harmony and two more seemingly in very happy relationships, I decided to give it a shot. After filling out the survey, I was floored at how spot on my personality profile was. I instantly got excited for the prospect that this site could match me up with a potential girl. I looked at my matches, which was only 7 in all of Las Vegas and surrounding areas up to 60 miles. This didn't really surprise me, because I know how I am and am glad I didn't have 100 or so options to filter through. The first profile I read seemed too perfect for me. I read through others and decided to give the whole thing a shot. I'll let you know how/if anything comes to fruition.

01-13-2008, 04:32 AM	#2 (permalink)
Mr. Blonde Spice Master Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 17,969 Internets: 284106	please do. i've always been curious about that shit.
	Psychedelics are illegal not because a loving government is concerned that you may jump out of a third story window. Psychedelics are illegal because they dissolve opinion structures and culturally laid down models of behavior and information processing. ― Terence McKenna

01-13-2008, 02:56 PM	#6 (permalink)
Heaven Can Wait English. Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: England Posts: 868 Internets: 179	i use www.plentyoffish.com signed up 2 days ago, fucked a 40 year old last night. it was weird shit, i didnt know her name.
	there is little I wouldn't do for a dolphin.

01-13-2008, 04:22 PM	#8 (permalink)
THEINCREDIBLEdork Emperor Meow Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 9,352 Internets: 290966	Does e-harmoney support alternative relationships? I need dick.
	#YOLO

01-13-2008, 05:38 PM	#11 (permalink)
THEINCREDIBLEdork Emperor Meow Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 9,352 Internets: 290966	cmon, pics man. need some fresh spank bank material
	#YOLO

01-13-2008, 12:37 PM	#3 (permalink)
Ugly Bastard Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 13,643 Internets: 247330	I subscribed to e-Harmony a year or two ago. I speculate there are two reasons why I received just one (or maybe it was two) matches even though I live in an area with over 5 million people within 50 miles of me: (a) I was young, 22, or maybe even 21... so most girls probably filter that they want guys older than that and (b) I indicated in my quiz that I'm not religious at all. eHarmony was founded by some Christian guy. Some people speculate that they kind of fuck you over if you indicate to be an athiest upon signing up.

01-13-2008, 12:51 PM	#4 (permalink)
Orgazmo COME ON YOU YANKS Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 15,732 Internets: 311447	I like this thread. F3lix, I think a picture and/or summary of your current target would make this thread gold. Post this shit before contact and keep us updated as contact evolves. When that one fizzles, move on to the next. Wash, rinse, repeat. That's a recipe for success.

01-13-2008, 02:54 PM	#5 (permalink)
f3lix Gangnam Style Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: DH's Massage Parlor Posts: 6,383 Internets: 213510	I, too, have felt I might be creating a bias when I claim no religious or spiritual beliefs. I am thinking about changing it to spiritual with no specific religion for that purpose. Although that would also defeat the purpose of finding that "one in a million" idea. Update: I elected to proceed with all seven matches to the next step (there are maybe ten steps.) The first one is asking 5 questions, which are picked among 57 options and the answers are 4 multiple choice options. Two of the seven "closed" the relationship stating they are pursuing another relationship. The other 5 have not responded. I also got 7 more options, this time with 6 of them being from neighboring states. I'll be really flexible here, but dating somebody 6 hours away isn't really what I'm looking for.

01-13-2008, 03:02 PM	#7 (permalink)
f3lix Gangnam Style Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: DH's Massage Parlor Posts: 6,383 Internets: 213510	I made some changes. I changed the allowance for possible matches to see my photo. Now they must start communicating with me to see them. I had uploaded a few (all are most common on my facebook profile, myspace, etc.) I also added on of me in a santa suit, figuring that would indicate that I was willing to "do it for the kids." Eharmony did not approve of the photo and won't allow me to use it. I'm not sure why... I also changed from no religion or spritual beliefs to just plan spiritual with no specific religion.

01-13-2008, 04:58 PM	#9 (permalink)
f3lix Gangnam Style Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: DH's Massage Parlor Posts: 6,383 Internets: 213510	Only hetero. Sorry Shaw.

01-13-2008, 05:21 PM	#10 (permalink)
f3lix Gangnam Style Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: DH's Massage Parlor Posts: 6,383 Internets: 213510	I got my first response. A 21 year-old from Anaheim answered my questions at a very likable level. She sent me questions in return. If things progress, I'll share more detail.

01-13-2008, 06:14 PM	#12 (permalink)
f3lix Gangnam Style Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: DH's Massage Parlor Posts: 6,383 Internets: 213510	They disabled the ole right-click/save, plus its against terms and agreements. chill the fuck out.

01-13-2008, 06:21 PM	#13 (permalink)
THEINCREDIBLEdork Emperor Meow Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 9,352 Internets: 290966	print screen gogogogogogogoggogogogo!
	#YOLO

01-13-2008, 08:32 PM	#14 (permalink)
Orgazmo COME ON YOU YANKS Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 15,732 Internets: 311447	Ya, we definitely need pics. Screenshot it please. Thanks.

01-13-2008, 09:07 PM	#15 (permalink)
f3lix Gangnam Style Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: DH's Massage Parlor Posts: 6,383 Internets: 213510	We're moving into personal questions. a 2nd girl has no opened communication. She's from Bakersfield, CA (which is where a fellow poker friend moved from Indiana to live) We'll see how it all goes, but I'm def. liking the first one.

01-14-2008, 02:30 AM	#16 (permalink)
BigDongedHoe Sex Kitten Milf fuuucck Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Denver, CO Posts: 3,704 Internets: 55974	move to have Gaz' lock thread without pictures provided by f3lix: yes - 1 no - 0
	There's life and then there is Cubs baseball, it's a chore to seperate the two.

01-14-2008, 02:55 AM	#17 (permalink)
f3lix Gangnam Style Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: DH's Massage Parlor Posts: 6,383 Internets: 213510	Fucking babies. Things with Anaheim-girl are working out very well. She is quick to reply and we've shared our "must haves" and "can't stands." Once those were sent, we both decided to pursue further and sent personal questions, with the option of using 3 more from the original list of 57. I used two personal and one standard. I liked her responses. These were in essay form and not multiple choice. She asked me three questions and I responded to those. I am now waiting for her to read them and decided if we'll use "open communication." I'm not really sure what that means yet. The first set of profiles that I read had one girl of whom I instantly started up with the questions. Despite her being Mexican (never dated one before) I saw a lot of potential. She shut me down before it even started... That really surprised me because I felt that we both had what the other is looking for. I now have 8 girls left on the match list, down from 14.

01-14-2008, 07:38 AM	#18 (permalink)
THEINCREDIBLEdork Emperor Meow Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 9,352 Internets: 290966	which haircut are you using in your pictures. the maestro? 2-0
	#YOLO Last edited by THEINCREDIBLEdork; 01-14-2008 at 07:40 AM.

01-14-2008, 11:19 AM	#19 (permalink)
f3lix Gangnam Style Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: DH's Massage Parlor Posts: 6,383 Internets: 213510	I used the maestro as the main pic and included 3 others.

01-14-2008, 02:10 PM	#20 (permalink)
Orgazmo COME ON YOU YANKS Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Indiana Posts: 15,732 Internets: 311447	f3lix, do you realize how much better this thread would be with a picture? Instead of "the girl from anaheim," we're looking at the chick you're describing. It turns a solid B thread into an A+ instantly.

01-14-2008, 02:57 PM	#21 (permalink)
Mr. Blonde Spice Master Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 17,969 Internets: 284106	yeah i must admit not having pictures is pretty ghey
	Psychedelics are illegal not because a loving government is concerned that you may jump out of a third story window. Psychedelics are illegal because they dissolve opinion structures and culturally laid down models of behavior and information processing. ― Terence McKenna

01-14-2008, 03:26 PM	#22 (permalink)
Ironic Mustache G'd up from the feet up. Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Cali Posts: 7,146 Supreme Emperor of the Jiu Jitsu Shit Forum?: Yes Internets: 114735	I think that's overdoing it a bit. Pics of the chicks would turn this B- thread into barely an A- thread (which is still good) but let's be honest, A+ is out of the question unless the chicks are naked.
	Creeping around as I please nonchalantly like any other Supreme Emperor might.

01-14-2008, 08:31 PM	#23 (permalink)
f3lix Gangnam Style Join Date: Oct 2003 Location: DH's Massage Parlor Posts: 6,383 Internets: 213510

01-14-2008, 08:47 PM	#24 (permalink)
THEINCREDIBLEdork Emperor Meow Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 9,352 Internets: 290966	id hit it i've been waiting to say that for so long
	#YOLO